West Midlands

One of the most anticipated nights on the Xtasia calendar returns with FFFF – Fab Friends Free Fun—a high-energy, feel-good event created especially for our amazing community.

Warm up your voice, grab the mic, and let your inner performer out—Sing and Swing brings a playful, social twist to your Xtasia night.

This event marks a major step forward for The Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for a bold, immersive, and unforgettable themed night dedicated to cuckold dynamics, power exchange, and consensual fantasy play.

The Great Head Space is a monthly social created to offer understanding, connection, and quiet support within our lifestyle community. Many of us have lived experience of mental health challenges, and this space exists to honour that—without pressure, judgement, or expectation.

Step into a night where desire meets adventure and every moment invites you to explore the unexpected. Wild Temptations is designed to awaken the senses, spark curiosity, and deliver an atmosphere charged with playful energy and irresistible allure.

Hosted by CherriPie and team, this afternoon event takes place in Flirts as a private hire, bringing together a select crowd for an exclusive, adults-only experience.

If you’re curious about the swinging lifestyle—or brand new to Xtasia—Newcummers Unleashed is designed especially for you.

As the evenings start to draw in, Girls Night In invites all women to relax, unwind, and enjoy a night created purely for you.

Hot Wives returns as one of Xtasia’s most anticipated themed nights, celebrating the hot-wife and stag & vixen dynamics within a confident, respectful, and highly social atmosphere.

Step away from the dancefloor and into something a little more strategic, social, and delightfully competitive with Flirts Board Game Evening.