Friends, Fun and More (FFM) is Flirts’ relaxed monthly Play Social, welcoming members of the Midlands Swinging Community for an easy-going, sociable evening designed to help you connect, chat, and feel at home.

On this special Friday, Xtasia teams up with the Blackmans Fan Club to bring you a vibrant, high-energy mixed singles and couples nightclub experience, enhanced by the presence of the BMFC community and those who admire them.

Friday 14 August 2026 – Couples & Singles welcomeSaturday 15 August 2026 – Couples & Single Ladies only Step back into the era of iconic music, bold fashion, and unforgettable party energy at the 90s Party Weekend at Chameleons Darlaston....

Flirts – Bi Night is a relaxed, welcoming evening created for bi and bi-curious members to socialise, flirt, connect, and explore in a pressure-free environment.

Climax is the ultimate party night for true players—a high-octane, high-heat evening designed for those who love to swing, explore, and fully indulge in the Xtasia experience.

Step away from the dancefloor and into something a little more strategic, social, and delightfully competitive with Flirts Board Game Evening.

Hot Wives returns as one of Xtasia’s most anticipated themed nights, celebrating the hot-wife and stag & vixen dynamics within a confident, respectful, and highly social atmosphere.

If you’re curious about the swinging lifestyle—or brand new to Xtasia—Newcummers Unleashed is designed especially for you.

Hosted by CherriPie and team, this afternoon event takes place in Flirts as a private hire, bringing together a select crowd for an exclusive, adults-only experience.