Presented by Tom_and_Jerry69, Cougars & Cubs is a high-energy, flirt-forward night dedicated to one of the most irresistible dynamics in the lifestyle — confident, experienced sirens and the younger studs who adore them.

Girls Night In is Flirts’ dedicated women-only social and play evening, created for connection, relaxation, flirtation, and unapologetic feminine energy — all in a safe, welcoming space designed entirely around you.

We proudly present Youthful Exuberance — a vibrant, high-energy event designed to put the youth back into the night. This is a preference-led evening aimed at the under-40s, bringing together a younger, lively crowd while remaining fully inclusive of all eligible members.

Step away from the dancefloor and into something a little more playful with Flirts Board Game Evening — a relaxed, social night built around laughter, light competition, and great company.

As the evenings start to draw in, Girls Night In invites all women to relax, unwind, and enjoy a night created purely for you.

Join CherriPie and her hand-picked team for an afternoon of exclusive mischief and unapologetic indulgence as Flirts transforms into a private playground for one of Xtasia’s most talked-about hosted events.

Prepare yourself for a night where instincts take over and curiosity is encouraged. Wild Temptations invites you to step beyond the ordinary and immerse yourself in an atmosphere charged with desire, adventure, and unapologetic fun.

Friday 24 July 2026 – Couples and singles welcome Saturday 25 July 2026 – Couples and single ladies only welcome Dress to impress at the Uniform Party at Chameleons Darlaston, where couples and singles are invited to enjoy a themed...

Taking your first steps into the lifestyle? Or your first visit to Xtasia? Newcummers Unleashed is thoughtfully designed for newcomers, offering a welcoming, non-pressurised introduction to the swinging scene in a safe, relaxed, and supportive environment.