Beginners & Newcomer Nights

Newbie-friendly swinger parties and introduction nights specifically designed for lifestyle beginners. Welcoming, pressure-free events with guided tours, friendly hosts, and supportive atmospheres helping curious couples and singles take their first steps.

Frisky Friday After Dark at The Attic Experience in Derby. A popular beginner-friendly night with full venue access and a lively social crowd.
Single Males: £35 Couples & TV/TS: £20 Single Females: £15
Cherry Popper - Newbie Night at Decadance in Rochdale. A welcoming event for first-timers with social vibes, icebreakers, and a friendly atmosphere.
Single Gents: £25 Couples: £15 TVs: £10 Single Ladies: ALWAYS FREE
Newcummers Unleashed is the perfect introduction to the lifestyle — a relaxed, non-pressurised evening created especially for those new to swinging or new to Xtasia.
Couples: £40 Single Females: £20
OPEN HOUSE ~ SATURDAY NEWBiE NiGHT at The Annex is designed to make the first steps into the lifestyle journey easy, comfortable, and genuinely enjoyable.
• Females/T-Girls — £5 • MF Couples — £30 • Single Males — £30
The Kiss Party | Saturday Experience Step into a playful, high-energy night where chemistry sparks and connections come naturally. The Kiss Party is all about flirtation, fun, and unforgettable moments on the dancefloor and beyond. Perfect for both newcomers and...
Newbie Weekend is designed especially for those curious about the lifestyle, offering a relaxed, friendly, and pressure-free introduction to the club scene.
Couples: £25 Single Males: £35 Single Females: £10
Newbie Weekend is all about making your first visit relaxed, welcoming, and completely pressure-free.
Couples: £25 Single Males: £35 Single Females: £10
Taking your first steps into the swinging lifestyle—or your first visit to Xtasia—can feel exciting, curious, and a little nerve-wracking all at once. Newcummers Unleashed is designed specifically to put those nerves at ease and help you explore at a pace that feels right for you.
Couples: £40 Single Females: £20
Taking your first steps into the lifestyle? Curious but cautious? Newcummers Unleashed is the perfect introduction to swinging — designed specifically for newcomers to the scene and those new to Xtasia, with an emphasis on comfort, consent, and choice.
Couples: £40 Single Females: £20
Curious about Club F but waiting for the right moment? Newbie Weekend is designed especially for those taking their very first step into the lifestyle—or anyone who enjoys a relaxed, welcoming atmosphere with plenty of new faces.
Couples: £25 Single Males: £35 Single Females: £10