We give you… Youthful Exuberance — an energetic, flirtatious night designed to put the youth in Youthful. This is a preference event aimed at the under-40s, creating a vibrant atmosphere with a younger crowd while still welcoming all couples and single ladies as usual.

Take a break from the usual pace and join us for a fun, social, and light-hearted Board Game Evening in Flirts. This is the perfect night for relaxed conversation, friendly competition, and connecting with others in an easygoing atmosphere.

Prepare yourself for an electrifying night where curiosity, confidence, and chemistry collide. Wild Temptations invites you to step beyond the ordinary and into a world where desire runs free and boundaries are explored at your own pace.

Taking your first steps into the swinging lifestyle—or your first visit to Xtasia—can feel exciting, curious, and a little nerve-wracking all at once. Newcummers Unleashed is designed specifically to put those nerves at ease and help you explore at a pace that feels right for you.

Monday 25 May 2026 Continue the Bank Holiday weekend at the Late Bonk Holiday Weekend – BI Night at Chameleons Darlaston, welcoming bi couples and bi singles for a relaxed, sociable evening with like-minded members. Enjoy a friendly, open atmosphere...

Step into an afternoon of pure indulgence and unapologetic desire as CherriPie and her hand-picked team return to Flirts for another unforgettable private takeover.

After overwhelming demand, PHUKT is BACK—and it’s bigger, louder, and more electrifying than ever before.

The Great Head Space is a monthly Flirts social designed to offer exactly that—a calm, welcoming environment where mental wellbeing comes first. This is not a workshop, lecture, or therapy session. It’s simply a safe, supportive space where you are free to be exactly as you need to be.

This event marks a major milestone for the Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for a bold, immersive, and unapologetically fetish-focused night at Xtasia.