West Midlands

A relaxed, welcoming night for the bi & bi-curious community to flirt, connect, and explore — at your own pace.

Every second Friday of the month, Xtasia proudly joins forces with the legendary Blackmans Fan Club to deliver a high-energy night that blends the best of a mixed singles & couples nightclub with an added edge of excitement, curiosity, and connection.

The Great Head Space returns to Flirts at Xtasia with a monthly social designed to support mental wellbeing within our lifestyle community — a safe, understanding environment where connection, discretion, and shared experience truly matter.

Step into an unforgettable afternoon of daring play and liberated fun with CherriPie and crew — as they take over the iconic Flirts space at Xtasia for a private hire session designed for those who love to explore, connect, and indulge. This isn’t just any gathering — it’s serious mischief wrapped in electric energy, laughter, chemistry, and unmissable moments.

Break the ice the fun way at Lock & Key, one of Xtasia’s most social and interactive nights.

Warm up your vocal cords and start the night on a high note with Sing & Swing, Xtasia’s relaxed and social karaoke evening.

This event marks a major milestone for the Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for an immersive, preference-based evening in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming club environment.

If you’ve ever been curious about the lifestyle but felt unsure where to begin, Newcummers Unleashed is designed especially for you.

Get ready for a night where desire meets adventure and temptation is impossible to ignore.

CherriPie returns to Flirts with her team for an afternoon event dedicated to serious mischief and uninhibited energy.