Events

Upcoming GroupFun events, parties and meetups.

It Was Not a Phase
It Was Not a Phase Themed Costume Parties
October 10, 2026

This is the night for everyone who grew up on Blink-182, Bullet For My Valentine, The Used, Taking Back Sunday, and everything loud, emotional, and unapologetically alternative. If you danced your heart out at Subculture at the Academy or still lose yourself at Uproar, you already know — this night is calling you back.

Flirts – PediPlay Time (Foot Fetish)
Flirts – PediPlay Time (Foot Fetish) Fetish & BDSM Events
October 10, 2026

Returning every other month on the second Saturday, PediPlay Time invites foot-fetish enthusiasts and curious newcomers alike to enjoy a dedicated evening of exploration, connection, and indulgence — hosted within the relaxed and welcoming setting of Flirts at Xtasia.

Friday Night Party
Friday Night Party Club Nights & Parties
October 16, 2026

Start your weekend in style at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle venue, where the atmosphere is relaxed, the company is open-minded, and the night promises endless possibilities.

Hot Wives
Hot Wives Club Nights & Parties
October 16, 2026

Running every third Friday of alternate months (February, April, June, August, October, December), Hot Wives at Xtasia is one of the most anticipated themed nights on the calendar — created for those who enjoy the confidence, chemistry, and excitement found within hot-wife and stag & vixen dynamics, as well as those who simply appreciate a room full of attractive, open-minded people.

Flirts – Girls Night In
Flirts – Girls Night In Spa & Naturist Events
October 16, 2026

As the evenings grow colder, it’s time to slow things down, get cosy, and enjoy a night designed just for women. Girls Night In at Flirts is all about relaxation, connection, and indulgent “me time” — shared with like-minded ladies in a warm, welcoming space.

LGBT Night
LGBT Night LGBTQ+ & Bi Events
October 16, 2026

Queer play, all genders, no limits. LGBT Night is on from 8pm to midnight: gay and bi play for men, women, trans, non-binary and TV/CD guests. Come solo, as a couple, or with your crew. BYOB, singles £15, couples £25. 18+, Challenge 25.

Saturday Party Night
Saturday Party Night Club Nights & Parties
October 17, 2026

Saturdays at Pleasures are made for indulgence, excitement, and connection. Our Saturday Party Night invites you to experience an evening where sophistication meets seduction in a relaxed, friendly, and non-pushy atmosphere.

CLIMAX
CLIMAX Club Nights & Parties
October 17, 2026

Running every other month on the third Saturday, CLIMAX is the event for those who truly love to swing and want the energy turned up from the very start. Designed to encourage maximum interaction and irresistible chemistry, this is a night where confidence, connection, and play take centre stage.