Step into the weekend with our Saturday Party Night at Pleasures, Kent’s ultimate lifestyle venue. This is your chance to relax, mingle, and explore in a warm, friendly, and non-pushy atmosphere, surrounded by like-minded people.

Break the ice the fun way at Lock & Key, one of Xtasia’s most social and interactive nights.

Black & White Sparkles Party hosted by Saints & Sinners - London’s premier lifestyle community. Enjoy life and share sensations with playful people.

Step into an unforgettable afternoon of daring play and liberated fun with CherriPie and crew — as they take over the iconic Flirts space at Xtasia for a private hire session designed for those who love to explore, connect, and indulge. This isn’t just any gathering — it’s serious mischief wrapped in electric energy, laughter, chemistry, and unmissable moments.

The Great Head Space returns to Flirts at Xtasia with a monthly social designed to support mental wellbeing within our lifestyle community — a safe, understanding environment where connection, discretion, and shared experience truly matter.

Every second Friday of the month, Xtasia proudly joins forces with the legendary Blackmans Fan Club to deliver a high-energy night that blends the best of a mixed singles & couples nightclub with an added edge of excitement, curiosity, and connection.

A relaxed, welcoming night for the bi & bi-curious community to flirt, connect, and explore — at your own pace.

It’s time to celebrate one full year of MILF Mayhem at Xtasia — and you’re invited to join the party! This special anniversary edition brings all the energy, flirtation, and fun that’s made MILF Mayhem one of the most talked-about daytime socials in Flirts.

Kick off your weekend at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle venue, for a night of connection, exploration, and unforgettable fun. Our Friday Night Party offers a relaxed and friendly atmosphere where you can meet like-minded people and indulge your desires in a safe, welcoming, and non-pushy environment.