All Events

Taking your first step into the lifestyle should feel exciting, not intimidating — and that’s exactly what Newcummers Unleashed is designed to deliver.

An exclusive private-hire daytime event hosted by CherriPie and her team, bringing an intimate, high-energy atmosphere to Flirts for an afternoon of adult mischief and indulgence.

Many within our lifestyle and wider community have lived experience of mental health challenges. This evening offers a calm, respectful environment where the principles we value most — discretion, social connection, and mutual understanding — come together to support one another.

Cuckmunity marks an exciting step forward for cuckold-focused events in the UK, bringing together like-minded members for a night of connection, exploration, and shared fantasies in a safe, consensual, and fully equipped environment.

Sing & Swing brings a relaxed, playful twist to your Friday night at Xtasia, combining music, laughter, and social connection before the evening fully unfolds.

Lock & Key is one of Xtasia’s most popular and sociable nights—designed to make meeting new people fun, effortless, and completely pressure-free.

Every second Tuesday of the month, Flirts opens its doors for FFM – Friends, Fun & More, a welcoming and sociable play social designed to bring together genuine members of the Midlands swinging community.

Friday daytime just got a whole lot hotter as MILF Mayhem returns to Flirts — and this time, it’s our 1st Anniversary celebration. If you’ve heard the rumours, now’s your chance to find out what all the fuss is about… and if you already know, you’ll understand why this event has become such a firm favourite. 😉

Every second Friday of the month, Xtasia proudly joins forces with the Blackmans Fan Club to deliver one of the club’s most popular and talked-about nights.

Swing Both Ways is a welcoming space for like-minded people to relax, socialise, and explore bisexual and bi-curious desires in a friendly, respectful, and judgment-free environment.