All Events

Many within our lifestyle and wider community have lived experience of mental health challenges. This evening offers a calm, respectful environment where the principles we value most — discretion, social connection, and mutual understanding — come together to support one another.

Step into one of the VA’s most iconic daytime events—Milf Club, running on the first and second Wednesdays of every month and known across the scene as the place where sensual energy meets irresistible daytime mischief.

Step away from the everyday and into a world of warmth, sensuality, and effortless confidence with Silks & Skins Spa Day—a daytime experience designed to awaken the senses and encourage self-expression.

Kick off your weekend with Pleasures’ legendary Friday Night Party, where the atmosphere is relaxed, inviting, and always full of sensual energy. Whether you’re a couple, single lady, or a respectful single gent, this is your chance to meet open-minded people and enjoy a sophisticated evening of connection and excitement.

Bi Night at VA is more than just a party—it’s a vibrant celebration of freedom, connection, and self-expression. Join us for our monthly gathering where laughter fills the bar, music drives the dancefloor, and the full spectrum of sensuality is embraced in a welcoming, open-minded atmosphere.

Cuckmunity marks an exciting step forward for cuckold-focused events in the UK, bringing together like-minded members for a night of connection, exploration, and shared fantasies in a safe, consensual, and fully equipped environment.

Sing & Swing brings a relaxed, playful twist to your Friday night at Xtasia, combining music, laughter, and social connection before the evening fully unfolds.

Greedy Girls is a night designed with the ladies firmly in mind—where choice, confidence, and indulgence take centre stage.

This September, we flip the script and dial the vibe way up as DJ Stigwood takes over with a masterfully curated set of rare and sultry house music. A legend in the scene, Stigwood’s soulful, deep, and seductive rhythms promise to move both body and spirit — leaving your senses craving more.

Lock & Key is one of Xtasia’s most popular and sociable nights—designed to make meeting new people fun, effortless, and completely pressure-free.