All Events

Step into one of the longest-running and most iconic daytime events in the lifestyle calendar — Milf Club at The Vanilla Alternative. Held on the first and second Wednesday of every month, this beloved gathering offers a sensual, social, and beautifully relaxed midweek escape.

The Couples & Single Females Only Night has been a midweek institution for over 30 years, earning its reputation as one of the most relaxed, friendly, and welcoming nights in the club’s calendar.

Midweek Madness returns — a Wednesday night escape designed for those who simply can’t wait for the weekend to indulge in connection, chemistry, and sensual exploration. This relaxed but lively swingers night offers the perfect mid-week fix inside one of Norfolk’s most versatile and discreet lifestyle venues.

Step into a world of sensual indulgence at Silks & Skins, Ignite’s seductive daytime spa event where lingerie, confidence, and pleasure take centre stage. Whether you prefer lace, silk, sheer, or bold mesh, this is your chance to flaunt your favourite sexy underwear and enjoy a relaxed, flirtatious atmosphere with like-minded guests.

If you’ve been curious, nervous, excited — or all three — Newbie Night at Cupid’s is the perfect place to begin.

Friday mornings at Xtasia don’t get hotter than this… MILF Mayhem in Flirts is celebrating its 1st Anniversary, and you’re invited to join the party and discover exactly why this daytime event has become such a favourite.

Step into a relaxed, sensual daytime escape at The Annex with FAB Friday Daytime — an open, welcoming event designed for playful exploration, social connection, and easy-going daytime fun. Whether you’re looking to unwind before the weekend rush, enjoy no-pressure socialising, or explore sensual spaces with like-minded people, this is the perfect way to start your Friday.

Newbie Weekend is designed especially for first-timers and those still finding their confidence—welcoming, relaxed, and pressure-free, while still delivering the sexy buzz Club F is famous for.

CUMFEST is a high-energy themed night created for guests who enjoy raw desire, uninhibited chemistry, and a crowd that knows exactly what they’re here for. This is not a gentle introduction — it’s an immersive experience designed for confident adults who thrive in a charged, no-nonsense atmosphere.

Flirts – Bi Night is a welcoming, relaxed, and open-minded space for bi and bi-curious individuals and couples to explore, connect, and socialise freely — without pressure, judgement, or expectation.