All Events

Get ready for another dazzling Saturday Night Party at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle club. This is your chance to unwind, mingle, and explore in a luxurious and welcoming space where the atmosphere is as relaxed as it is seductive.

This is the night for everyone who grew up on Blink-182, Bullet For My Valentine, The Used, Taking Back Sunday, and everything loud, emotional, and unapologetically alternative. If you danced your heart out at Subculture at the Academy or still lose yourself at Uproar, you already know — this night is calling you back.

Returning every other month on the second Saturday, PediPlay Time invites foot-fetish enthusiasts and curious newcomers alike to enjoy a dedicated evening of exploration, connection, and indulgence — hosted within the relaxed and welcoming setting of Flirts at Xtasia.

Held every second Tuesday of the month, Friends, Fun & More (FFM) is a relaxed and welcoming play social created especially for members of the Midlands Swinging Community who value genuine connection as much as shared experiences.

Running every third Friday of alternate months (February, April, June, August, October, December), Hot Wives at Xtasia is one of the most anticipated themed nights on the calendar — created for those who enjoy the confidence, chemistry, and excitement found within hot-wife and stag & vixen dynamics, as well as those who simply appreciate a room full of attractive, open-minded people.

As the evenings grow colder, it’s time to slow things down, get cosy, and enjoy a night designed just for women. Girls Night In at Flirts is all about relaxation, connection, and indulgent “me time” — shared with like-minded ladies in a warm, welcoming space.

Start your weekend in style at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle venue, where the atmosphere is relaxed, the company is open-minded, and the night promises endless possibilities.

Saturdays at Pleasures are made for indulgence, excitement, and connection. Our Saturday Party Night invites you to experience an evening where sophistication meets seduction in a relaxed, friendly, and non-pushy atmosphere.

Running every other month on the third Saturday, CLIMAX is the event for those who truly love to swing and want the energy turned up from the very start. Designed to encourage maximum interaction and irresistible chemistry, this is a night where confidence, connection, and play take centre stage.

Looking for something a little different? Flirts Board Game Evening is all about relaxed fun, friendly competition, and easy conversation — the perfect mid-month social for members who enjoy connecting in a more laid-back way.