All Events

The Great Head Space is a monthly social created to offer understanding, connection, and quiet support within our lifestyle community. Many of us have lived experience of mental health challenges, and this space exists to honour that—without pressure, judgement, or expectation.

This event marks a major step forward for The Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for a bold, immersive, and unforgettable themed night dedicated to cuckold dynamics, power exchange, and consensual fantasy play.

Step into the warm, seductive atmosphere of Pleasures for another of our signature Friday Night Parties — the perfect start to your weekend. Enjoy a relaxed and friendly evening designed for open-minded guests looking to socialise, flirt, and explore in a safe, non-pushy setting.

Warm up your voice, grab the mic, and let your inner performer out—Sing and Swing brings a playful, social twist to your Xtasia night.

One of the most anticipated nights on the Xtasia calendar returns with FFFF – Fab Friends Free Fun—a high-energy, feel-good event created especially for our amazing community.

Saturday nights at Pleasures are all about indulgence, connection, and uninhibited fun. Step into a welcoming, non-pushy atmosphere where the music flows, the conversations spark, and fantasies come to life in style.

CherriPie and her carefully selected team take over Flirts for an afternoon of unapologetic indulgence and playful mischief.

Friends, Fun & More (FFM) is Xtasia’s monthly Play Social, bringing together members of the Midlands swinging community in a relaxed, friendly setting designed to help genuine connections grow naturally.

MILF Mayhem returns to Flirts at Xtasia—and this time, we’re celebrating its 1st Anniversary in true Xtasia style.

It’s time to misbehave. St. Trinian’s Weekend at Club F brings a night of cheeky fantasy, playful rebellion, and irresistible mischief where rules are meant to be bent—and sometimes broken.