All Events

Get ready for another unforgettable Saturday Party Night at Pleasures — Kent’s elegant and welcoming lifestyle venue where sophistication meets sensuality.

Xtasia invites you to the launch of Kinky Fuckers — a bold new event created for couples and ladies ready to explore their curiosities, connect with like-minded souls, and embrace their kinkier side in a safe, welcoming, and expertly equipped environment.

Friends, Fun & More (FFM) is Flirts’ relaxed monthly play-friendly social, created especially for members of the Midlands swinging community who enjoy genuine connection alongside a touch of playful possibility.

Presented by Tom_and_Jerry69, Cougars & Cubs is a high-energy, flirt-forward night dedicated to one of the most irresistible dynamics in the lifestyle — confident, experienced sirens and the younger studs who adore them.

Girls Night In is Flirts’ dedicated women-only social and play evening, created for connection, relaxation, flirtation, and unapologetic feminine energy — all in a safe, welcoming space designed entirely around you.

Ease into the weekend with a Friday Night Party at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle club where the atmosphere is warm, elegant, and enticingly relaxed.

Step into the world of Pleasures for a night of connection, laughter, and exploration. Our Saturday Party Night is all about creating a relaxed, welcoming space where couples and single ladies can unwind, socialise, and enjoy an evening surrounded by like-minded people.

We proudly present Youthful Exuberance — a vibrant, high-energy event designed to put the youth back into the night. This is a preference-led evening aimed at the under-40s, bringing together a younger, lively crowd while remaining fully inclusive of all eligible members.

Step away from the dancefloor and into something a little more playful with Flirts Board Game Evening — a relaxed, social night built around laughter, light competition, and great company.

As the evenings start to draw in, Girls Night In invites all women to relax, unwind, and enjoy a night created purely for you.