All Events

It’s time to celebrate one year of MILF Mayhem at Xtasia — and you’re invited to join the party! What started as a daytime favourite has become a legendary Flirts event, known for its playful energy, confident crowd, and irresistible atmosphere. Now, we’re marking its 1st Anniversary in true Xtasia style.

Got Milk? at Purple Mamba Club in Nottingham. A short, fantasy-led social session with a playful atmosphere and host-curated experience for members and guests.

Mummies & Mischief at Club Play in Blackpool. A themed Egyptian-inspired night with immersive atmosphere, social vibe and playful energy.

A Hotwife’s Hunger at Within Temptation in Torquay. An optional themed club night with a lively, inclusive atmosphere and a strong social crowd.

Xtasia proudly teams up once again with the Blackmans Fan Club for a high-energy, highly anticipated monthly night that celebrates confidence, desire, and open-minded connections. Held every second Friday of the month, this event blends Xtasia’s classic mixed nightclub atmosphere with the unmistakable presence of a dedicated group of admired men — and the couples and singles who seek them.

Flirts – Bi Night is a relaxed, welcoming evening created specifically for bi and bi-curious members who want space to flirt, connect, and explore in a comfortable, judgement-free environment. Whether you’re confidently bi, gently curious, or simply enjoy fluid connections, this night is all about authentic attraction and mutual respect.

PINK NOISE - Breast Cancer Awareness Event at Penthouse Playrooms in Dunstable. Ladies-only night with music, charity auction, themed pink dress code and social atmosphere.

Get ready to unwind, mingle, and explore at Pleasures in Kent for our ever-popular Friday Night Party. Step into a warm, welcoming atmosphere where open-minded guests come together for laughter, flirtation, and unforgettable connections.

Hot Wife Friday at Jaydees in Bedford. A confident social night with stylish vibes, relaxed connections and an inclusive Friday atmosphere.

The Hot Wife Club at Liberty Elite in Lutterworth. A guest list-only, host-led event with a stylish atmosphere and a strong social dynamic.