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Yeehaw! Saddle up for a night where the spirit of the frontier meets irresistible after-dark temptation. Cowboys & Indians at Club F invites you to embrace adventure, confidence, and playful rivalry in a lively, flirtatious setting.

Kick off your weekend at Pleasures with our signature Friday Night Party — the perfect blend of sophistication, sensuality, and social energy. Expect a relaxed and friendly atmosphere where genuine connections come first and pressure stays at the door.

Ease into the night with Sing and Swing, a relaxed and social karaoke experience hosted in Xtasia’s Chill Lounge — the perfect warm-up before diving into everything the club has to offer.

SAINT & SINNER – FRIDAY EXPERIENCE Are you the angel… or the temptation? Step into Saint & Sinner, a Friday night where duality takes over and the vibe shifts between sweet and sinful with every moment. Expect a charged crowd,...

Yeehaw! Saddle up for the second night of a wild weekend at Club F, where the spirit of the frontier comes alive and your inner cowboy, cowgirl, or daring Indian is free to roam. Expect playful rivalries, cheeky competition, and a night full of flirtation, laughter, and unforgettable encounters.

MILF Mayhem returns to Xtasia as we celebrate the 1st Anniversary of this hugely popular daytime event, hosted in the relaxed and social surroundings of Flirts. If you’ve heard the buzz and wondered what all the fuss is about, this is your chance to experience it for yourself.

Start your weekend the right way with our Friday Night Party at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle destination. This is your chance to unwind after a long week and step into a relaxed, friendly, and non-pushy atmosphere where genuine connections come naturally.

Every second Friday of the month, Xtasia proudly joins forces with the legendary Blackmans Fan Club to deliver a high-energy night that blends the best of a mixed singles & couples nightclub with an added edge of excitement, curiosity, and connection.

Flirts – Bi Night at Xtasia is a relaxed, friendly, and inclusive evening designed for bi, bi-curious, and open-minded members looking to flirt, connect, and explore in a safe, respectful environment. Whether you’re experienced in the lifestyle or just beginning to explore your bisexual side, this event offers a welcoming space with no pressure and plenty of opportunity to socialise.

Xtasia introduces an exciting brand-new kink-focused event designed for curious, adventurous couples and confident single ladies looking to explore alternative desires in a safe, inclusive, and professionally run environment.