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Yeehaw! Saddle up for the second night of a wild weekend at Club F, where the spirit of the frontier comes alive and your inner cowboy, cowgirl, or daring Indian is free to roam. Expect playful rivalries, cheeky competition, and a night full of flirtation, laughter, and unforgettable encounters.

MILF Mayhem returns to Xtasia as we celebrate the 1st Anniversary of this hugely popular daytime event, hosted in the relaxed and social surroundings of Flirts. If you’ve heard the buzz and wondered what all the fuss is about, this is your chance to experience it for yourself.

Start your weekend the right way with our Friday Night Party at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle destination. This is your chance to unwind after a long week and step into a relaxed, friendly, and non-pushy atmosphere where genuine connections come naturally.

Every second Friday of the month, Xtasia proudly joins forces with the legendary Blackmans Fan Club to deliver a high-energy night that blends the best of a mixed singles & couples nightclub with an added edge of excitement, curiosity, and connection.

Flirts – Bi Night at Xtasia is a relaxed, friendly, and inclusive evening designed for bi, bi-curious, and open-minded members looking to flirt, connect, and explore in a safe, respectful environment. Whether you’re experienced in the lifestyle or just beginning to explore your bisexual side, this event offers a welcoming space with no pressure and plenty of opportunity to socialise.

Xtasia introduces an exciting brand-new kink-focused event designed for curious, adventurous couples and confident single ladies looking to explore alternative desires in a safe, inclusive, and professionally run environment.

Looking for a laid-back lifestyle social in the Midlands? Flirts Board Game Evening at Xtasia is the perfect chance to unwind, laugh, and connect with like-minded people in a fun, pressure-free setting.

Ease into the weekend with a sensual and social evening at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle club. Our Friday Night Party invites you to relax, unwind, and connect in a beautifully designed venue that’s as welcoming as it is exciting.

Get ready for another unforgettable Friday Night Party at Pleasures, Kent’s most stylish and welcoming lifestyle venue. Start your weekend in a relaxed, open-minded setting where friendly faces, laughter, and sensual exploration come together under one roof.

Step into an evening of admiration and allure as Pleasures hosts its Salute the Services Theme Night — a celebration dedicated to the brave men and women of our uniformed services. Whether you come dressed as a daring soldier, dashing sailor, commanding officer, or seductive nurse, this night promises to be one of passion, playfulness, and pure fun.