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Warm up your vocal cords and start the night on a high note with Sing & Swing, Xtasia’s relaxed and social karaoke evening.

Step into the weekend with our Saturday Party Night at Pleasures, Kent’s ultimate lifestyle venue. This is your chance to relax, mingle, and explore in a warm, friendly, and non-pushy atmosphere, surrounded by like-minded people.

Break the ice the fun way at Lock & Key, one of Xtasia’s most social and interactive nights.

Ariana Grande Tribute Night at The Scene in Lincoln. Enjoy a live tribute show, drag performances, DJs and clubbing across two floors until 6AM.

Alert! Leather Edition at AREA in Manchester. Celebrating Manchester Leather Weekend with music, community, and a dedicated leather social experience.

The Great Head Space returns to Flirts at Xtasia with a monthly social designed to support mental wellbeing within our lifestyle community — a safe, understanding environment where connection, discretion, and shared experience truly matter.

It’s time to celebrate one full year of MILF Mayhem at Xtasia — and you’re invited to join the party! This special anniversary edition brings all the energy, flirtation, and fun that’s made MILF Mayhem one of the most talked-about daytime socials in Flirts.

Been thinking about visiting Club F but waiting for the right moment? Newbie Weekend is designed especially for those who are curious, new to the lifestyle, or simply looking for a relaxed and welcoming introduction to the club.

Kick off your weekend at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle venue, for a night of connection, exploration, and unforgettable fun. Our Friday Night Party offers a relaxed and friendly atmosphere where you can meet like-minded people and indulge your desires in a safe, welcoming, and non-pushy environment.

Every second Friday of the month, Xtasia proudly joins forces with the legendary Blackmans Fan Club to deliver a high-energy night that blends the best of a mixed singles & couples nightclub with an added edge of excitement, curiosity, and connection.