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Friends, Fun & More (FFM) is Xtasia’s monthly Play Social, bringing together members of the Midlands swinging community in a relaxed, friendly setting designed to help genuine connections grow naturally.

Every month, Xtasia teams up with Blackmans Fan Club to bring you a vibrant, high-energy mixed night that blends classic nightclub vibes with lifestyle curiosity and connection.

Flirts Bi Night is a relaxed, friendly space for bi and bi-curious members to flirt, connect, socialise, and explore in a comfortable, pressure-free environment.

RAPTURE – FRIDAY EXPERIENCE Step into Rapture – a Friday night where elegance meets desire and the energy is impossible to ignore. Designed for the bold and the curious, this is a refined yet electric experience filled with connection, rhythm,...

Join Demons & Angels at ChunkyMuffins in Boston. Choose your side and enjoy a themed lifestyle party full of fun and connection.

Class is in session… but the rules are about to be rewritten. St. Trinian’s Weekend at Club F delivers a night of cheeky, tongue-in-cheek roleplay inspired by classic mischief, playful authority, and adult fantasy.

Get ready for another unforgettable evening at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle venue. Our Saturday Night Party is the highlight of the weekend — a chance to relax, mingle, and explore in a warm, welcoming, and non-pushy atmosphere.

Xtasia invites you to the launch of Kinky Fuckers—a brand-new event created for couples and ladies who love to explore the kinkier side of desire in a safe, inclusive, and well-equipped space.

Take a break from the usual pace and join us in Flirts for a relaxed evening of fun, laughter, and friendly competition at our Board Game Evening.

Friday 18 September 2026 – Couples & Singles welcomeSaturday 19 September 2026 – Couples & Single Ladies only Class is back in session at the St Trinians Back to School Party Weekend at Chameleons Darlaston, bringing a playful, cheeky twist...