Upcoming events tagged BDSM Play

Xtasia introduces an exciting brand-new kink-focused event designed for curious, adventurous couples and confident single ladies looking to explore alternative desires in a safe, inclusive, and professionally run environment.

Fetish Factory, Saturday 14th November at Penthouse Playrooms. It’s a swingers night — the fetish is the dress code, not the activity, so you don’t need to be into kink to come. Latex, leather, harnesses, or simply all black. Dirty Hour 8 till 9, hot food outside all night, 8pm till 3.30am. £20 per person, last entry 11.30pm. Dress like everyone’s watching, because they will be.

As the colder evenings draw in, Flirts at Xtasia invites you to unwind, connect, and indulge in a beautifully relaxed Girls Night In — a women-only evening designed for comfort, confidence, and connection.

Swing meets kink on Friday 20th November, when Dangerous Curves turns the Liberty Elite dance floor into a dungeon. Live demos, the violet wand, wax play, and Mr Loc and Raya on hand to guide anyone who’s curious but doesn’t know where to start. SJ’s back too with discounted piercings and fine line tattoos — bring cash. Body positive, curves of all sizes, and you absolutely don’t need to be into kink to have a brilliant night. Couples £45, single ladies £20. New single gents must be vetted by the 17th.

Cottage takes over Lakota on Friday 20th November, 10pm till 4am. A club night, cruising space and play party for cis and trans men who are sexually open and up for exploring — plus non-binary folks who feel at home in gay male culture. No membership needed, but advance tickets only, from £18. Cottage takes over Lakota on Friday 20th November, 10pm till 4am. A club night, cruising space and play party for cis and trans men who are sexually open and up for exploring — plus non-binary folks who feel at home in gay male culture. No membership needed, but advance tickets only, from £18. Last entry 1am. 18+.. 18+.

Kinky Tease brings a Christmas Jumper Munch to Penthouse Playrooms on Wednesday 2nd December, 6pm till 11pm. BDSM, kink and fetish in its friendliest form — a tour, an etiquette chat, friendly introductions, and someone on hand all night so nobody gets thrown in at the deep end. Fetish and festive dress, Christmas jumpers encouraged, and a free drink with every ticket. From £10. Last entry 9pm.

The 12 Ways of “Kink”MAS at Club Play in Blackpool. Join Mistress Selina for six festive kink challenges, games, prizes and Christmas treats.

The last Climax Clique of the year lands Sunday 6th December at Lakota, Bristol. Club Love’s FLINTA-only night runs 3pm till 10pm: a Kinky Clothes Swap from 3, TEASE speed dating at 4.30, then Holy C and Jasseeka Del on the decks from 6 with the full play space open and festive stalls to browse. BYO snacks, upgraded heating, members only, 20+. Applications close 5pm on 5th December.

The Gentlemen’s Club returns on Sunday 13th December, 2pm till 8pm — a male dominant / female submissive afternoon for couples, whether you’ve been on the scene for years or are only just considering it. Full use of the venue’s equipment, and the chance to be guided by more experienced couples in a no-pressure, respectful setting. £25 per person, pre-paid only, and reception closes at 3pm sharp. Email for your invitation.

The elves misbehave, Santa definitely isn’t innocent, and the naughty list is where everyone wants to be. Kinky Christmas takes over Penthouse Playrooms on Friday 18th December, 8pm till 3.30am — seductive Santas, wicked elves, winter queens and festive fetishwear under the twinkling lights. Dirty Hour runs 8 till 9 with 2-for-£15 cocktails, and The Frying Squad is outside all night. Tickets from £20, last entry 11.30pm.Kinky Tease – Kinky Christmas invites you into a world where pleasure and power play intertwine.

Bare Bones is kink only — no swinging, no single guys looking for “fun”. Saturday 19th December, 8pm till 2am at Within Temptation. All black, kink wear or themed attire; no jeans, no trainers. £15 for everyone, whoever you are, and your fourth visit is free if you make the first three. Not sure it’s for you? Message DaddySpanksSluts on FetLife and ask.

A unique fetish and BDSM event at Hellfire Club, with dungeon play, darkrooms, cinema areas, and social spaces, for swingers, LGBTQ+, adventurers & explorers.