Club Nights & Parties

Step into one of Xtasia’s most popular and sociable nights with Lock and Key — a fun, flirtatious ice-breaker event designed to get everyone mingling effortlessly from the moment they arrive.

It’s time to dress up, unwind, and let your weekend truly begin at Pleasures, Kent’s most exclusive and sensual lifestyle venue. Our Saturday Party Night is the perfect setting to connect with open-minded people in an elegant, welcoming, and non-pushy environment.

Start your weekend the right way with our Friday Night Party at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle destination. This is your chance to unwind after a long week and step into a relaxed, friendly, and non-pushy atmosphere where genuine connections come naturally.

Every second Friday of the month, Xtasia proudly joins forces with the legendary Blackmans Fan Club to deliver a high-energy night that blends the best of a mixed singles & couples nightclub with an added edge of excitement, curiosity, and connection.

Saturday nights at Pleasures are all about connection, confidence, and sensual discovery. Join us for an unforgettable evening in Kent’s most elegant lifestyle venue — where excitement meets relaxation in a welcoming, non-pushy environment.

GIRLS JUST WANNA HAVE FUN – SATURDAY EXPERIENCE Turn up the energy at Girls Just Wanna Have Fun – a vibrant Saturday night celebrating confidence, connection, and pure feel-good vibes. With a live performance of pop classics by Jazz Mina,...

Presented by Tom_and_Jerry69, Cougars & Cubs at Xtasia is a high-energy lifestyle party celebrating confident, experienced women and the younger men who adore them. If you love flirtation, chemistry, and unapologetic attraction, this is a night designed exactly for you.

Ease into the weekend with a sensual and social evening at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle club. Our Friday Night Party invites you to relax, unwind, and connect in a beautifully designed venue that’s as welcoming as it is exciting.

Get ready for another unforgettable Friday Night Party at Pleasures, Kent’s most stylish and welcoming lifestyle venue. Start your weekend in a relaxed, open-minded setting where friendly faces, laughter, and sensual exploration come together under one roof.

Step into an evening of admiration and allure as Pleasures hosts its Salute the Services Theme Night — a celebration dedicated to the brave men and women of our uniformed services. Whether you come dressed as a daring soldier, dashing sailor, commanding officer, or seductive nurse, this night promises to be one of passion, playfulness, and pure fun.