Club Nights & Parties

Black & White Sparkles Party hosted by Saints & Sinners - London’s premier lifestyle community. Enjoy life and share sensations with playful people.

Kick off your weekend at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle venue, for a night of connection, exploration, and unforgettable fun. Our Friday Night Party offers a relaxed and friendly atmosphere where you can meet like-minded people and indulge your desires in a safe, welcoming, and non-pushy environment.

Every second Friday of the month, Xtasia proudly joins forces with the legendary Blackmans Fan Club to deliver a high-energy night that blends the best of a mixed singles & couples nightclub with an added edge of excitement, curiosity, and connection.

Get ready for another dazzling Saturday Night Party at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle club. This is your chance to unwind, mingle, and explore in a luxurious and welcoming space where the atmosphere is as relaxed as it is seductive.

Held every second Tuesday of the month, Friends, Fun & More (FFM) is a relaxed and welcoming play social created especially for members of the Midlands Swinging Community who value genuine connection as much as shared experiences.

Start your weekend in style at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle venue, where the atmosphere is relaxed, the company is open-minded, and the night promises endless possibilities.

Running every third Friday of alternate months (February, April, June, August, October, December), Hot Wives at Xtasia is one of the most anticipated themed nights on the calendar — created for those who enjoy the confidence, chemistry, and excitement found within hot-wife and stag & vixen dynamics, as well as those who simply appreciate a room full of attractive, open-minded people.

Running every other month on the third Saturday, CLIMAX is the event for those who truly love to swing and want the energy turned up from the very start. Designed to encourage maximum interaction and irresistible chemistry, this is a night where confidence, connection, and play take centre stage.

Saturdays at Pleasures are made for indulgence, excitement, and connection. Our Saturday Party Night invites you to experience an evening where sophistication meets seduction in a relaxed, friendly, and non-pushy atmosphere.

Confessions | Sin… & Tell All Give in to temptation this Saturday with a night built around secrets, seduction, and irresistible chemistry. Confessions invites you to let go, share your desires, and explore a more daring side in a charged,...