Thinking about visiting a swingers club for the first time? Curious about the lifestyle but unsure where to begin? Newcummers Unleashed at Xtasia is created especially for couples and single ladies who are new to swinging, new to Xtasia, or simply looking for a gentle, non-pressured introduction to the scene.

Taking your first steps into the lifestyle? Curious about clubbing but not sure where to begin? Newcummers Unleashed is designed especially for you.

If you’ve ever been curious about the lifestyle but felt unsure where to begin, Newcummers Unleashed is designed especially for you.

If you’re curious about the swinging lifestyle—or brand new to Xtasia—Newcummers Unleashed is designed especially for you.

Been thinking about trying Club F but waiting for the right moment? Newbie Weekend is created especially for those who are curious, new to the lifestyle, or simply looking for a relaxed and welcoming first experience.

Been thinking about visiting Club F but waiting for the right moment? Newbie Weekend is designed especially for those who are curious, new to the lifestyle, or simply looking for a relaxed and welcoming introduction to the club.

No Limits at Steamer Quay in Torquay. An inclusive lifestyle event welcoming couples and single adults for a friendly evening in a premium social venue.

Curious Curves at Steamer Quay in Torquay. An exclusive guest list-only social for curvy adults with wellness facilities and a welcoming lifestyle community.

Down Under Disco at Eagle London celebrates Australian pop with Kylie, Dannii, Troye Sivan, DJs Wayne David and Paul Joseph, plus wall-to-wall Aussie anthems.

DEEP INSIDE at Eagle London is a men-only club night with house music, a free garden BBQ, Happy Hour drinks and free entry for BLUF members in gear.

BRÜT SOCIAL at Eagle London features DJs PER QX and DJ Cactushead, £4 beers, great house music and a welcoming bear community night in Vauxhall.

Crossroads: Tempt and Tease at Club Play in Blackpool. Meet like-minded people with fun icebreakers, themed entertainment and a welcoming social atmosphere.

Sip & Strip at Mary's Cardiff. Enjoy drag entertainment, live performances, a welcome cocktail and a fun afternoon for gays, gals and friends.

MILF Mayhem returns to Xtasia as we celebrate the 1st Anniversary of this hugely popular daytime event, hosted in the relaxed and social surroundings of Flirts. If you’ve heard the buzz and wondered what all the fuss is about, this is your chance to experience it for yourself.

It’s time to celebrate one full year of MILF Mayhem at Xtasia — and you’re invited to join the party! This special anniversary edition brings all the energy, flirtation, and fun that’s made MILF Mayhem one of the most talked-about daytime socials in Flirts.

MILF Mayhem returns to Flirts at Xtasia—and this time, we’re celebrating its 1st Anniversary in true Xtasia style.

Xtasia introduces an exciting brand-new kink-focused event designed for curious, adventurous couples and confident single ladies looking to explore alternative desires in a safe, inclusive, and professionally run environment.

Returning every other month on the second Saturday, PediPlay Time invites foot-fetish enthusiasts and curious newcomers alike to enjoy a dedicated evening of exploration, connection, and indulgence — hosted within the relaxed and welcoming setting of Flirts at Xtasia.

Xtasia invites you to the launch of Kinky Fuckers—a brand-new event created for couples and ladies who love to explore the kinkier side of desire in a safe, inclusive, and well-equipped space.

This is where style gets daring and confidence takes centre stage. Leather / Lace / PVC Weekend at Club F is a celebration of bold self-expression, elevated fetish fashion, and unforgettable energy.

CherriPie returns to Flirts at Xtasia for an exclusive private hire afternoon event, bringing together her hand-picked team and invited guests for a session of bold energy, playful confidence, and unapologetic mischief.

Step into an afternoon of bold energy and irresistible chemistry as CherriPie and her hand-picked team return to Flirts at Xtasia for another exclusive private hire event — where confidence, connection, and playful mischief take centre stage.

Prepare for an afternoon of unapologetic energy and irresistible chemistry as CherriPie and her hand-picked team take over Flirts at Xtasia for a private hire event where mischief, confidence, and connection take centre stage.

Step into an unforgettable afternoon of daring play and liberated fun with CherriPie and crew — as they take over the iconic Flirts space at Xtasia for a private hire session designed for those who love to explore, connect, and indulge. This isn’t just any gathering — it’s serious mischief wrapped in electric energy, laughter, chemistry, and unmissable moments.

CherriPie returns to Flirts with her team for an afternoon event dedicated to serious mischief and uninhibited energy.

CherriPie and her carefully selected team take over Flirts for an afternoon of unapologetic indulgence and playful mischief.

UK Halloween Retreat at Killing Kittens in Bracknell. An exclusive multi-day escape blending workshops, dining, and immersive themed parties.

Sensational Saturday with Miss Courtney at Mary's Cardiff. Enjoy fabulous drag, live DJs and an unforgettable LGBTQ+ Saturday celebration in Cardiff.

Sensational Saturday with Jolene Dover at Mary's Cardiff. Enjoy dazzling drag, live DJs and a vibrant LGBTQ+ Saturday celebration in Cardiff.

Locker Room at Steamer Quay in Torquay. A themed social for gay and bi men with sportswear dress, wellness facilities and a welcoming community atmosphere.

Squirt After Work at Steamer Quay in Torquay. A Friday social for gay and bi men with wellness facilities, wristband networking and a welcoming atmosphere.

Blackening at The Cock Tavern in London. A welcoming community event for queer Black men to connect, socialise and build meaningful friendships.

Cock Does Karaoke at The Cock Tavern in London. Sing your favourite camp classics in a fun, welcoming LGBTQ+ karaoke night with live entertainment.

Looking for a laid-back lifestyle social in the Midlands? Flirts Board Game Evening at Xtasia is the perfect chance to unwind, laugh, and connect with like-minded people in a fun, pressure-free setting.

Join us for Flirts – Friends, Fun and More (FFM), the monthly play social designed for the Midlands swinging community at Xtasia, one of the UK’s most respected swingers and fetish clubs. This relaxed adult social night is perfect for couples and singles who want to meet like-minded people, socialise, and explore the lifestyle in a safe and welcoming environment.

The Great Head Space is a monthly social created to support mental wellbeing within our lifestyle community — offering a safe, understanding environment built on discretion, empathy, and shared experience.

Looking for something a little different? Flirts Board Game Evening is all about relaxed fun, friendly competition, and easy conversation — the perfect mid-month social for members who enjoy connecting in a more laid-back way.

The Great Head Space returns to Flirts at Xtasia with a monthly social designed to support mental wellbeing within our lifestyle community — a safe, understanding environment where connection, discretion, and shared experience truly matter.

Take a break from the usual pace and join us in Flirts for a relaxed evening of fun, laughter, and friendly competition at our Board Game Evening.

As the colder evenings draw in, Flirts at Xtasia invites you to unwind, connect, and indulge in a beautifully relaxed Girls Night In — a women-only evening designed for comfort, confidence, and connection.

As the evenings grow colder, it’s time to slow things down, get cosy, and enjoy a night designed just for women. Girls Night In at Flirts is all about relaxation, connection, and indulgent “me time” — shared with like-minded ladies in a warm, welcoming space.

As the evenings start to cool, Flirts invites you to unwind, relax, and indulge in a night created by women, for women.

This event marks a major milestone for the Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for an immersive, preference-based evening in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming club environment.

This event marks a major milestone for the Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for an immersive, preference-based evening in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming club environment.

This event marks a major step forward for The Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for a bold, immersive, and unforgettable themed night dedicated to cuckold dynamics, power exchange, and consensual fantasy play.

Step into the seductive weekend energy with our Saturday Party Night at Pleasures — a welcoming, relaxed, and open-minded atmosphere designed for connection, conversation, and deliciously playful exploration. ✨

Curious Curves Rocky Horror Special at Steamer Quay in Torquay. A guest list-only themed lifestyle event celebrating iconic costumes, community and fun.

Club Play's 8th Anniversary Party in Darlaston. Celebrate with a Dirty Dancing vs Grease theme, unlimited drinks, buffet and an all-inclusive Bank Holiday event.

Back to 2000's!! at Quest Swingers Club in Leeds. Enjoy a nostalgic themed night with welcome shots, sweet treats, great music and fun for couples and singles.

Sinergy at Purple Mamba Club in Nottingham. A creative themed members-only event with stylish costumes, a welcoming atmosphere and a memorable Friday night.

On the Job at Purple Mamba Club in Nottingham. Enjoy a fun uniform-themed party with great entertainment, socialising and a welcoming members-only atmosphere

A Very Kinky Murder Mystery Evening at Purple Mamba Club in Nottingham. Solve an interactive whodunnit, play your character and enjoy a fun members-only night.

Unlocking Pleasure & Intimacy Workshop at Purple Mamba Club in Nottingham. An educational session on confidence, intimacy, communication and personal wellbeing.