Upcoming Events
Join us for thrilling events! Live music, workshops, art exhibits, and more! Mark your calendars and don't miss out!
February 3, 2026
Many within our lifestyle and wider community have lived experience of mental health challenges. This evening offers a calm, respectful environment where the principles we value most — discretion, social connection, and mutual understanding — come together to support one another.
February 4, 2026
Step into one of the VA’s most iconic daytime events—Milf Club, running on the first and second Wednesdays of every month and known across the scene as the place where sensual energy meets irresistible daytime mischief.
COUPLES £25; FEMALES: £10; GENTS £30
February 5, 2026
Step away from the everyday and into a world of warmth, sensuality, and effortless confidence with Silks & Skins Spa Day—a daytime experience designed to awaken the senses and encourage self-expression.
Couples £35; Single Ladies £15; Single Gents £40
February 6, 2026
Kick off your weekend with Pleasures’ legendary Friday Night Party, where the atmosphere is relaxed, inviting, and always full of sensual energy. Whether you’re a couple, single lady, or a respectful single gent, this is your chance to meet open-minded people and enjoy a sophisticated evening of connection and excitement.
Couples: £40; Single Gentlemen: £50; Single Ladies: FREE
February 6, 2026
Bi Night at VA is more than just a party—it’s a vibrant celebration of freedom, connection, and self-expression. Join us for our monthly gathering where laughter fills the bar, music drives the dancefloor, and the full spectrum of sensuality is embraced in a welcoming, open-minded atmosphere.
COUPLES £35; FEMALES £10; GENTS £40
February 6, 2026
Cuckmunity marks an exciting step forward for cuckold-focused events in the UK, bringing together like-minded members for a night of connection, exploration, and shared fantasies in a safe, consensual, and fully equipped environment.
Couples: £30 Single Males: £50 Single Females: £10
November 25, 2026
CherriPie returns to Flirts at Xtasia for an exclusive private hire afternoon event, bringing together her hand-picked team and invited guests for a session of bold energy, playful confidence, and unapologetic mischief.
November 21, 2026
Xtasia proudly presents Youthful Exuberance — a high-energy lifestyle event designed to celebrate confidence, connection, and youthful chemistry. This is a preference night aimed at the under-40s, creating a vibrant, lively atmosphere with a noticeably younger crowd, while remaining welcoming, inclusive, and relaxed.
Couples: £40 Single Females: £20
November 20, 2026
As the colder evenings draw in, Flirts at Xtasia invites you to unwind, connect, and indulge in a beautifully relaxed Girls Night In — a women-only evening designed for comfort, confidence, and connection.
November 20, 2026
Presented by Tom_and_Jerry69, Cougars & Cubs at Xtasia is a high-energy lifestyle party celebrating confident, experienced women and the younger men who adore them. If you love flirtation, chemistry, and unapologetic attraction, this is a night designed exactly for you.
Single Females: £10 Couples: £30 Single Males: £50
November 17, 2026
Looking for a laid-back lifestyle social in the Midlands? Flirts Board Game Evening at Xtasia is the perfect chance to unwind, laugh, and connect with like-minded people in a fun, pressure-free setting.
November 14, 2026
Xtasia introduces an exciting brand-new kink-focused event designed for curious, adventurous couples and confident single ladies looking to explore alternative desires in a safe, inclusive, and professionally run environment.
Couples: £40 Single Females: £20
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