Looking to meet like-minded people in a relaxed, welcoming, and pressure-free environment? Social at Ignite is your perfect introduction to the lifestyle scene — a stylish, friendly social evening designed for genuine connection, easy conversation, and relaxed mingling.

Turn up the heat and let your inhibitions melt away at HUMP NIGHT HIJINX, Decadance Rochdale’s irresistible midweek escape — where karaoke, flirtation, playful banter, and kink-friendly energy collide.

Curious about the lifestyle? Nervous about taking your very first step? The ICEBREAKER is designed especially for newbies, offering a relaxed, friendly and welcoming environment where curiosity, connection, and confidence come together naturally.

Thinking about visiting a swingers club for the first time? Curious about the lifestyle but unsure where to begin? Newcummers Unleashed at Xtasia is created especially for couples and single ladies who are new to swinging, new to Xtasia, or simply looking for a gentle, non-pressured introduction to the scene.

Taking your first steps into the lifestyle? Curious about clubbing but not sure where to begin? Newcummers Unleashed is designed especially for you.

If you’ve ever been curious about the lifestyle but felt unsure where to begin, Newcummers Unleashed is designed especially for you.

Shirts N Heels at Our Place 4 Fun in London. A couples and ladies only Saturday night party with playful dress code, guest hosts, and irresistible late-night energy.

The Butterfly Club at Our Place 4 Fun in London. A Tuesday night couples and ladies only party with lively energy, playful vibes, and a flirty, welcoming atmosphere.

Good Vibes After Party at Steel Cliffe in Sheffield. A relaxed, consent-led afterparty with social vibes, great music, and welcoming connections.

Midweek Madness at The Annex in Norfolk. Join couples, single females & males for a fun, relaxed Wednesday night with social, safe-sex play and BYOA service.

Swing: Both Ways at The Private Club in Birmingham. A hosted bi-friendly night focused on connection, comfort, and a carefully balanced guest experience.

Fun For All at CJ’s Adult Parties in Glasgow. Enjoy a vibrant monthly gathering for socializing, mingling, and playful fun in a safe, welcoming atmosphere.

Afternoon Transvestite, Crossdresser & Admirers at CJ’s Adult Parties in Glasgow. Enjoy a friendly, social afternoon for TVs, couples, and admirers in a relaxed, safe environment.

The XY Club Daytime Event at The Playgrounds in Burton. A safe, private daytime experience for verified bi, gay and trans guests seeking relaxed connection.

Step into one of VA2’s most iconic and longest-running daytime experiences — Milf Club, a beautifully relaxed, irresistibly flirtatious social gathering designed to awaken desire, connection, and playful exploration.

Who says Mondays have to be dull? At Monday Funday, Decadance Rochdale transforms your afternoon into a playground of music, laughter, and open-minded connection. Step through our doors and leave the week’s worries behind — this is your space to play, dance, and socialise without limits.

Step into one of the longest-running and most loved daytime lifestyle events on the calendar.

Your perfect daytime escape into relaxation, connection, and playful possibility — FAB FRiDAY DAYTiME invites you to unwind, explore, and indulge in a laid-back yet seductive club atmosphere designed for both newcomers and experienced lifestyle members.

ENVY Play Party at a secret luxury venue in Kells. An immersive late-night swinger experience featuring elegant spaces, curated play zones, and refined social energy.

Kink Event at Club Bacchus in Dundee. Join a vibrant, inclusive night of socializing, themed play, and connection with Dundee’s alternative lifestyle community.

Xtasia introduces an exciting brand-new kink-focused event designed for curious, adventurous couples and confident single ladies looking to explore alternative desires in a safe, inclusive, and professionally run environment.

Returning every other month on the second Saturday, PediPlay Time invites foot-fetish enthusiasts and curious newcomers alike to enjoy a dedicated evening of exploration, connection, and indulgence — hosted within the relaxed and welcoming setting of Flirts at Xtasia.

Xtasia invites you to the launch of Kinky Fuckers—a brand-new event created for couples and ladies who love to explore the kinkier side of desire in a safe, inclusive, and well-equipped space.

Step into a relaxed, welcoming space dedicated to the love of feet with PediPlay Time. Whether you’re well established in the foot fetish scene or simply curious and ready to dip your toes in, this evening offers a safe, friendly, and respectful environment to explore your foot-focused fantasies.

Thirsty Thursday at Guilt Free Girls Club in London. A bold, female-focused swingers night built for confidence, energy, and connection.

CherriPie returns to Flirts at Xtasia for an exclusive private hire afternoon event, bringing together her hand-picked team and invited guests for a session of bold energy, playful confidence, and unapologetic mischief.

Step into an afternoon of bold energy and irresistible chemistry as CherriPie and her hand-picked team return to Flirts at Xtasia for another exclusive private hire event — where confidence, connection, and playful mischief take centre stage.

Prepare for an afternoon of unapologetic energy and irresistible chemistry as CherriPie and her hand-picked team take over Flirts at Xtasia for a private hire event where mischief, confidence, and connection take centre stage.

Step into an unforgettable afternoon of daring play and liberated fun with CherriPie and crew — as they take over the iconic Flirts space at Xtasia for a private hire session designed for those who love to explore, connect, and indulge. This isn’t just any gathering — it’s serious mischief wrapped in electric energy, laughter, chemistry, and unmissable moments.

CherriPie returns to Flirts with her team for an afternoon event dedicated to serious mischief and uninhibited energy.

Scissor Sisters at The Private Club in Birmingham. A welcoming LGBTQ+ focused social night with curated guests, relaxed vibes, and inclusive energy.

Bi Night at The Vanilla Alternative is a vibrant, welcoming celebration for the LGBTQ+ community and beyond. This monthly event is dedicated to openness, inclusivity, and genuine connection—bringing together like-minded people in a relaxed, respectful, and beautifully social environment.

EASTER PRIDE PARTY is a fearless celebration of freedom, self-expression, inclusivity, and indulgent nightlife, wrapped in rainbow energy, seductive style, and electrifying late-night chaos.

Step into a night of fluid desire, open exploration, and uninhibited connection at THE ANNEX Bi NiGHT — a vibrant and inclusive swingers party celebrating bisexual freedom, curiosity, and authentic expression.

Flirts – Bi Night at Xtasia is a relaxed, friendly, and inclusive evening designed for bi, bi-curious, and open-minded members looking to flirt, connect, and explore in a safe, respectful environment. Whether you’re experienced in the lifestyle or just beginning to explore your bisexual side, this event offers a welcoming space with no pressure and plenty of opportunity to socialise.

A relaxed, welcoming night for the bi & bi-curious community to flirt, connect, and explore — at your own pace.

ENM Thursdays at Guilt Free Girls Club in London. A relaxed, social swingers night for ethical non-monogamy, connection, and exploration.

Looking for a laid-back lifestyle social in the Midlands? Flirts Board Game Evening at Xtasia is the perfect chance to unwind, laugh, and connect with like-minded people in a fun, pressure-free setting.

Join us for Flirts – Friends, Fun and More (FFM), the monthly play social designed for the Midlands swinging community at Xtasia, one of the UK’s most respected swingers and fetish clubs. This relaxed adult social night is perfect for couples and singles who want to meet like-minded people, socialise, and explore the lifestyle in a safe and welcoming environment.

The Great Head Space is a monthly social created to support mental wellbeing within our lifestyle community — offering a safe, understanding environment built on discretion, empathy, and shared experience.

Looking for something a little different? Flirts Board Game Evening is all about relaxed fun, friendly competition, and easy conversation — the perfect mid-month social for members who enjoy connecting in a more laid-back way.

The Great Head Space returns to Flirts at Xtasia with a monthly social designed to support mental wellbeing within our lifestyle community — a safe, understanding environment where connection, discretion, and shared experience truly matter.

Step into a world of relaxation, connection, and seductive self-expression at Silks & Skins Spa Day, an exclusive lifestyle event where lingerie, confidence, and sensual freedom take centre stage.

As the colder evenings draw in, Flirts at Xtasia invites you to unwind, connect, and indulge in a beautifully relaxed Girls Night In — a women-only evening designed for comfort, confidence, and connection.

Prepare to unleash your sexy side at Silks & Skins Spa Day — a bold, body-positive daytime event where confidence, connection, and indulgence flow effortlessly.

As the evenings grow colder, it’s time to slow things down, get cosy, and enjoy a night designed just for women. Girls Night In at Flirts is all about relaxation, connection, and indulgent “me time” — shared with like-minded ladies in a warm, welcoming space.

As the evenings start to cool, Flirts invites you to unwind, relax, and indulge in a night created by women, for women.

As the evenings start to draw in, Girls Night In invites all women to relax, unwind, and enjoy a night created purely for you.

No Lights – No Towels at Club Bacchus in Dundee. Enjoy a discreet men-only sauna evening with socializing, playful vibes, and a welcoming community.

This event marks a major milestone for the Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for an immersive, preference-based evening in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming club environment.

This event marks a major milestone for the Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for an immersive, preference-based evening in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming club environment.

This event marks a major step forward for The Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for a bold, immersive, and unforgettable themed night dedicated to cuckold dynamics, power exchange, and consensual fantasy play.

Cuckmunity represents a major step forward for the UK cuckold community — bringing together like-minded couples, bulls, and individuals for a night built around trust, power dynamics, desire, and shared understanding.

Cuckmunity arrives at Xtasia for a landmark night, bringing together like-minded members of the cuckold and hot-wife community for an immersive, high-energy, and deeply themed club experience.

Bi-Night at Cupids Swingers Club in Manchester. An inclusive, judgment-free night for all genders and sexualities to socialise and explore freely.

Couples & Single Females Only Night at Cupids Swingers Club in Manchester. A welcoming midweek party perfect for new couples and curious single ladies.

M.O.T.D at Cupids Swingers Club in Manchester. A relaxed daytime lifestyle event perfect for newcomers and experienced swingers to mingle and connect.

Cougars and Hotwives at Cupids Swingers Club in Manchester. A lively lifestyle party bringing confident women, social energy, and a playful club atmosphere.

Cumfest at Cupids Swingers Club in Manchester. A bold lifestyle party known for its high-energy crowd, open atmosphere, and uninhibited adult nightlife.

Couples & Single Females Only Night at Cupids Swingers Club in Manchester. A popular midweek lifestyle event with a friendly crowd and relaxed atmosphere.

St Patrick’s Day at Steel Cliffe in Sheffield. A themed swingers party with vibrant energy, welcoming vibes, and playful connections.

80’s Party Night at The Naughty Pineapple in Leicester. A retro-inspired swingers evening with themed fun, social vibes, and inclusive club atmosphere.

This is the night for everyone who grew up on Blink-182, Bullet For My Valentine, The Used, Taking Back Sunday, and everything loud, emotional, and unapologetically alternative. If you danced your heart out at Subculture at the Academy or still lose yourself at Uproar, you already know — this night is calling you back.

Throw on your eyeliner, bring the attitude, and relive the soundtrack of your youth — It Was Not a Phase is ready to hit hard. 🖤🔥

If baggy jeans, studded belts, Stars and Straps buckles, and eyeliner-heavy nights still live rent-free in your head — this one’s for you. It Was Not a Phase is a throwback celebration of the emo, metal, and pop-punk era, reimagined with a sexy, grown-up Xtasia twist.

From Blink-182 and Bullet For My Valentine to The Used and Taking Back Sunday — if you ever lived for those nights, this event is absolutely for you.