Upcoming Events
Join us for thrilling events! Live music, workshops, art exhibits, and more! Mark your calendars and don't miss out!
January 8, 2026
If you’ve been curious, nervous, excited — or all three — Newbie Night at Cupid’s is the perfect place to begin.
Single Guy (Non-Member): £40 Single Guy (Member): £20 Couples: £20 Single Ladies: free TV/TS: £10
January 9, 2026
Friday mornings at Xtasia don’t get hotter than this…
MILF Mayhem in Flirts is celebrating its 1st Anniversary, and you’re invited to join the party and discover exactly why this daytime event has become such a favourite.
Single Men: £40 Couples: £20 Ladies: £10
January 9, 2026
Flirts – Bi Night is a welcoming, relaxed, and open-minded space for bi and bi-curious individuals and couples to explore, connect, and socialise freely — without pressure, judgement, or expectation.
£10
January 9, 2026
Blackmans Fan Club returns to Xtasia for another high-energy, inclusive club night.
Couples: £30 Ladies: £10 Gents: £50
January 9, 2026
CUMFEST is a high-energy themed night created for guests who enjoy raw desire, uninhibited chemistry, and a crowd that knows exactly what they’re here for. This is not a gentle introduction — it’s an immersive experience designed for confident adults who thrive in a charged, no-nonsense atmosphere.
Single Guy (Non-Member): £50 Single Guy (Member): £35 Couples: £30 Single Ladies: £5 TV/TS: £15
January 9, 2026
Kickstart your weekend at Pleasures in Kent with our ever-popular Friday Night Party. Known for its relaxed, friendly, and non-pushy environment, this event is perfect for both newcomers and seasoned guests who want to unwind, socialise, and explore their desires at their own pace.
Couples: £40; Single Gentlemen: £50; Single Ladies: FREE
March 3, 2026
The Great Head Space is a monthly social created by experts through lived experience, placing people and wellbeing first.
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March 1, 2026
CherriPie Gangbang returns to Flirts for an exclusive daytime takeover, hosted by CherriPie and her team. Expect a private, controlled environment designed for guests who enjoy high-energy, adult-only experiences within a trusted and established venue.
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February 28, 2026
Newcummers Unleashed is a relaxed, non-pressurised evening created especially for those who are new to swinging — and for guests attending Xtasia for the very first time.
Couples: £40 Single Females: £20
February 27, 2026
Prepare yourself for a night where desire runs free and temptation is impossible to ignore. Wild Temptations invites you to step beyond the ordinary and into an atmosphere charged with energy, curiosity, and irresistible chemistry.
Couples: £30 Single Males: £50 Single Females: £10
February 25, 2026
Join CherriPie and her invited team for an intimate private-hire afternoon event hosted within Flirts at Xtasia. This gathering is designed for experienced, like-minded adults seeking a controlled, exclusive environment away from regular club programming.
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February 21, 2026
Welcome to CLIMAX — the night designed for those who come to play, explore, and indulge. Held every other month on the 3rd Saturday, this is one of Xtasia’s most action-focused events, created specifically for couples and single ladies who love an electric atmosphere and unapologetically steamy energy.
Couples: £40 Single Females: £20
Popular Venues
Find the ideal space to host your remarkable event and make lasting impressions.
30 Bedford St South
Relax in our hot tub, meet up with friends or meet new ones on the night. We are a welcoming and friendly club, and always invite new members and new comers to the scene and are LGBTQ friendly.
Welcome to Hedonism NI — an exclusive, electrifying series of swingers' parties designed for adventurous adults who crave connection, exploration, and unforgettable encounters.
85-89 Blandford Street
Where your fantasies find their playground.
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