Events

Start your weekend in style at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle venue, where the atmosphere is relaxed, the company is open-minded, and the night promises endless possibilities.

Running every third Friday of alternate months (February, April, June, August, October, December), Hot Wives at Xtasia is one of the most anticipated themed nights on the calendar — created for those who enjoy the confidence, chemistry, and excitement found within hot-wife and stag & vixen dynamics, as well as those who simply appreciate a room full of attractive, open-minded people.

As the evenings grow colder, it’s time to slow things down, get cosy, and enjoy a night designed just for women. Girls Night In at Flirts is all about relaxation, connection, and indulgent “me time” — shared with like-minded ladies in a warm, welcoming space.

Queer play, all genders, no limits. LGBT Night is on from 8pm to midnight: gay and bi play for men, women, trans, non-binary and TV/CD guests. Come solo, as a couple, or with your crew. BYOB, singles £15, couples £25. 18+, Challenge 25.

Saturdays at Pleasures are made for indulgence, excitement, and connection. Our Saturday Party Night invites you to experience an evening where sophistication meets seduction in a relaxed, friendly, and non-pushy atmosphere.

Running every other month on the third Saturday, CLIMAX is the event for those who truly love to swing and want the energy turned up from the very start. Designed to encourage maximum interaction and irresistible chemistry, this is a night where confidence, connection, and play take centre stage.

Looking for something a little different? Flirts Board Game Evening is all about relaxed fun, friendly competition, and easy conversation — the perfect mid-month social for members who enjoy connecting in a more laid-back way.

Come for the thrills, stay for the chills. The Halloween Ball at Club F is where mystery, seduction, and the supernatural collide for one unforgettable night of wicked indulgence.

Start your weekend in style with the ever-popular Friday Night Party at Pleasures, Kent’s elegant and inclusive lifestyle venue. Step into a world where the atmosphere is relaxed, the crowd is friendly, and every guest is free to explore their desires in a welcoming, non-pushy environment.

Get ready for a night where curiosity takes control and the ordinary is left at the door. Wild Temptations is designed to ignite your senses, stir your imagination, and invite you to explore a world where desire and adventure collide.