Upcoming Events
Join us for thrilling events! Live music, workshops, art exhibits, and more! Mark your calendars and don't miss out!
January 30, 2026
End your week the right way with our Friday Night Party — the perfect mix of relaxation, flirtation, and excitement in one of Kent’s most luxurious lifestyle venues.
Couples: £40; Single Gentlemen: £50; Single Ladies: FREE
January 30, 2026
Step into Freedom Friday at The Vanilla Alternative, where the atmosphere is warm, welcoming, and open to couples, ladies, and pre-booked gentlemen. This is your invitation to shed the weight of the working week and embrace an unforgettable night at one of the UK’s most renowned and inclusive lifestyle clubs.
COUPLES £35; FEMALES: £10; GENTS £40
January 30, 2026
Wicked Vixens is all about the ladies—bold, flirtatious, playful, and unapologetically naughty. Whether you arrive with your Stag or decide to find one on the night, this is your chance to explore, tease, and indulge in an atmosphere designed for freedom, excitement, and mutual respect.
January 31, 2026
Get ready to unleash your alter ego at our Superheroes Party — a night where capes, masks, and secret identities collide in a flirty, high-energy atmosphere! Whether you’re a daring hero, mischievous villain, or something deliciously in between, this is your chance to save (or corrupt) the night.
Couples (MF): £25 Single Males: £35 Single Females: £10 TS/TV Guests: £15
January 31, 2026
Step into Saturday Seduction—VA’s signature weekly event exclusively for couples and single ladies, designed to celebrate sensuality, connection, and unapologetic pleasure. This is your invitation to leave your inhibitions at the door and immerse yourself in a night that blends elegance, erotic energy, and warm, social intimacy.
COUPLES: £45; FEMALES: £15
January 31, 2026
Saturday nights at The No3 Club are all about connection, chemistry, and playful exploration. Mixed Swing Night invites couples, ladies, and a limited number of pre-booked single gents to enjoy an evening designed for meeting like-minded people in a warm, sexy, no-pressure environment.
Couples: £20 Ladies: £10 Gents: £30
October 16, 2026
Running every third Friday of alternate months (February, April, June, August, October, December), Hot Wives at Xtasia is one of the most anticipated themed nights on the calendar — created for those who enjoy the confidence, chemistry, and excitement found within hot-wife and stag & vixen dynamics, as well as those who simply appreciate a room full of attractive, open-minded people.
Couples: £30 Single Males: £50 Single Females: £10
October 13, 2026
Held every second Tuesday of the month, Friends, Fun & More (FFM) is a relaxed and welcoming play social created especially for members of the Midlands Swinging Community who value genuine connection as much as shared experiences.
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October 10, 2026
Returning every other month on the second Saturday, PediPlay Time invites foot-fetish enthusiasts and curious newcomers alike to enjoy a dedicated evening of exploration, connection, and indulgence — hosted within the relaxed and welcoming setting of Flirts at Xtasia.
Gentlemen: £35 Ladies: £20
October 10, 2026
This is the night for everyone who grew up on Blink-182, Bullet For My Valentine, The Used, Taking Back Sunday, and everything loud, emotional, and unapologetically alternative. If you danced your heart out at Subculture at the Academy or still lose yourself at Uproar, you already know — this night is calling you back.
Couples: £40 Single Females: £20
October 9, 2026
It’s time to celebrate one full year of MILF Mayhem at Xtasia — and you’re invited to join the party! This special anniversary edition brings all the energy, flirtation, and fun that’s made MILF Mayhem one of the most talked-about daytime socials in Flirts.
Single Men: £40 Couples: £20 Ladies: £10
October 9, 2026
A relaxed, welcoming night for the bi & bi-curious community to flirt, connect, and explore — at your own pace.
£15
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30 Bedford St South
Relax in our hot tub, meet up with friends or meet new ones on the night. We are a welcoming and friendly club, and always invite new members and new comers to the scene and are LGBTQ friendly.
Welcome to Hedonism NI — an exclusive, electrifying series of swingers' parties designed for adventurous adults who crave connection, exploration, and unforgettable encounters.
85-89 Blandford Street
Where your fantasies find their playground.
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