Temptation at Club Play in Blackpool. A welcoming swinger event for newcomers with host Feral K, social games, club tours, and a relaxed atmosphere.

Thinking about visiting a swingers club for the first time? Curious about the lifestyle but unsure where to begin? Newcummers Unleashed at Xtasia is created especially for couples and single ladies who are new to swinging, new to Xtasia, or simply looking for a gentle, non-pressured introduction to the scene.

Taking your first steps into the lifestyle? Curious about clubbing but not sure where to begin? Newcummers Unleashed is designed especially for you.

If you’ve ever been curious about the lifestyle but felt unsure where to begin, Newcummers Unleashed is designed especially for you.

If you’re curious about the swinging lifestyle—or brand new to Xtasia—Newcummers Unleashed is designed especially for you.

Taking your first steps into the lifestyle? Or your first visit to Xtasia? Newcummers Unleashed is thoughtfully designed for newcomers, offering a welcoming, non-pressurised introduction to the swinging scene in a safe, relaxed, and supportive environment.

Discos 'n' Divas Cabaret in London. Enjoy live music, drag, comedy, dance and ballet with discounted group tickets for a spectacular variety show.

End of Summer Glow UP! at Quest Swingers Club in Leeds. Enjoy UV body paint, welcome shots, sweet treats and a glowing themed night for couples and singles.

Black Out Glitter Night at Quest Swingers Club in Leeds. Enjoy a sparkling themed lifestyle event with welcome shots, sweet treats and a lively atmosphere for couples and singles.

Casino Royale Couples Only Party at Purple Mamba Club in Nottingham. Enjoy casino-style games, live music, black-tie glamour and an exclusive couples-only evening.

Sin Sin Sing: Open Mic Night at Purple Mamba Club in Nottingham. Enjoy live music from Chae-Sin Love, open mic performances, karaoke and a vibrant Saturday atmosphere.

Sunday's Suck at Cupids Swingers Club in Manchester. A welcoming Sunday lifestyle event for newcomers and experienced guests with social spaces and private rooms.

Enjoy An Afternoon With Lady Alan! at Pride Bar in Bournemouth. Bottomless drinks, pizza, live drag cabaret, DJs and a fabulous brunch party.

Drag Brunch with 2 Pregnant Men at Dalston Superstore in London. Enjoy drag, comedy, games and a welcome Mimosa at this lively brunch.

Drag Brunch with Loren Dell'Arco + Perle Rare at Dalston Superstore in London. Enjoy drag, burlesque, games and a welcome Mimosa.

Femmi's Drag Brunch! at Dalston Superstore in London. Enjoy drag, comedy, games and a welcome Mimosa with the fabulous Femmi Bitch.

Embargo at Liberty Elite in Lutterworth. A relaxed daytime fetish event with ambient music, dungeon play, buffet and welcoming community.

The XY Club Daytime Event at The Playgrounds in Burton. A safe, private daytime experience for verified bi, gay and trans guests seeking relaxed connection.

Gear'd at Saunabar in Bournemouth. A welcoming monthly event for leather, rubber, pups and fetish gear enthusiasts to socialise in a friendly, inclusive venue.

Experience Kinky Night at ChunkyMuffins in Boston. A welcoming monthly event for open-minded guests exploring kink, connection and community.

Fun For All - Club Kink in London at CJ’s. Enjoy a fun lifestyle party with fetish fashion, live demonstrations, specialist stalls and a welcoming social atmosphere.

Venom at Purple Mamba Club in Nottingham. A dark, alternative-themed night blending bold style, music, and an expressive, inclusive atmosphere.

Xtasia introduces an exciting brand-new kink-focused event designed for curious, adventurous couples and confident single ladies looking to explore alternative desires in a safe, inclusive, and professionally run environment.

Returning every other month on the second Saturday, PediPlay Time invites foot-fetish enthusiasts and curious newcomers alike to enjoy a dedicated evening of exploration, connection, and indulgence — hosted within the relaxed and welcoming setting of Flirts at Xtasia.

CherriPie returns to Flirts at Xtasia for an exclusive private hire afternoon event, bringing together her hand-picked team and invited guests for a session of bold energy, playful confidence, and unapologetic mischief.

Step into an afternoon of bold energy and irresistible chemistry as CherriPie and her hand-picked team return to Flirts at Xtasia for another exclusive private hire event — where confidence, connection, and playful mischief take centre stage.

Prepare for an afternoon of unapologetic energy and irresistible chemistry as CherriPie and her hand-picked team take over Flirts at Xtasia for a private hire event where mischief, confidence, and connection take centre stage.

Step into an unforgettable afternoon of daring play and liberated fun with CherriPie and crew — as they take over the iconic Flirts space at Xtasia for a private hire session designed for those who love to explore, connect, and indulge. This isn’t just any gathering — it’s serious mischief wrapped in electric energy, laughter, chemistry, and unmissable moments.

CherriPie returns to Flirts with her team for an afternoon event dedicated to serious mischief and uninhibited energy.

CherriPie and her carefully selected team take over Flirts for an afternoon of unapologetic indulgence and playful mischief.

UK Halloween Retreat at Killing Kittens in Bracknell. An exclusive multi-day escape blending workshops, dining, and immersive themed parties.

HOMOPARODY: SLUTLINS – Camp Life! at Two Brewers in London. Enjoy hilarious drag, pop parodies, interactive cabaret and club entry after the show.

Cabaret with Marsha Mallow at Two Brewers in London. Enjoy live drag, Amy LaQueefa, Happy Hour, free entry before 9pm and dancing until 2am.

Cabaret with Monroe at Two Brewers in London. Enjoy live drag, DJ Demon, Happy Hour, free entry before 9pm and a vibrant Wednesday night.

BootCAMP All Stars at Two Brewers in London. Enjoy a new all-star drag lineup every Thursday in August, Happy Hour and free entry before 9pm.

Cabaret with Letitia Delish at Two Brewers in London. Enjoy spectacular live drag, Amy LaQueefa, Happy Hour, free entry before 9pm and dancing until 2am.

Cabaret with Woe Addams at Two Brewers in London. Enjoy live drag, DJ Demon, Happy Hour, free entry before 9pm and a vibrant Wednesday night.

Roll To Play at V2V Club in Nuneaton. Hosted by Rodgered & The Cabin Girl, this interactive social event features games, laughter, and easy connections.

Looking for a laid-back lifestyle social in the Midlands? Flirts Board Game Evening at Xtasia is the perfect chance to unwind, laugh, and connect with like-minded people in a fun, pressure-free setting.

Join us for Flirts – Friends, Fun and More (FFM), the monthly play social designed for the Midlands swinging community at Xtasia, one of the UK’s most respected swingers and fetish clubs. This relaxed adult social night is perfect for couples and singles who want to meet like-minded people, socialise, and explore the lifestyle in a safe and welcoming environment.

The Great Head Space is a monthly social created to support mental wellbeing within our lifestyle community — offering a safe, understanding environment built on discretion, empathy, and shared experience.

Looking for something a little different? Flirts Board Game Evening is all about relaxed fun, friendly competition, and easy conversation — the perfect mid-month social for members who enjoy connecting in a more laid-back way.

The Great Head Space returns to Flirts at Xtasia with a monthly social designed to support mental wellbeing within our lifestyle community — a safe, understanding environment where connection, discretion, and shared experience truly matter.

As the colder evenings draw in, Flirts at Xtasia invites you to unwind, connect, and indulge in a beautifully relaxed Girls Night In — a women-only evening designed for comfort, confidence, and connection.

As the evenings grow colder, it’s time to slow things down, get cosy, and enjoy a night designed just for women. Girls Night In at Flirts is all about relaxation, connection, and indulgent “me time” — shared with like-minded ladies in a warm, welcoming space.

As the evenings start to cool, Flirts invites you to unwind, relax, and indulge in a night created by women, for women.

This event marks a major milestone for the Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for an immersive, preference-based evening in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming club environment.

This event marks a major milestone for the Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for an immersive, preference-based evening in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming club environment.

This event marks a major step forward for The Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for a bold, immersive, and unforgettable themed night dedicated to cuckold dynamics, power exchange, and consensual fantasy play.

Cuckmunity represents a major step forward for the UK cuckold community — bringing together like-minded couples, bulls, and individuals for a night built around trust, power dynamics, desire, and shared understanding.

Step into the seductive weekend energy with our Saturday Party Night at Pleasures — a welcoming, relaxed, and open-minded atmosphere designed for connection, conversation, and deliciously playful exploration. ✨

Back to 2000's!! at Quest Swingers Club in Leeds. Enjoy a nostalgic themed night with welcome shots, sweet treats, great music and fun for couples and singles.

Candy Land Seduction at Quest Swingers Club in Leeds. Enjoy a sweet-themed lifestyle event with welcome shots, treats, a friendly atmosphere and fun for couples and singles.

Sinergy at Purple Mamba Club in Nottingham. A creative themed members-only event with stylish costumes, a welcoming atmosphere and a memorable Friday night.

On the Job at Purple Mamba Club in Nottingham. Enjoy a fun uniform-themed party with great entertainment, socialising and a welcoming members-only atmosphere

A Very Kinky Murder Mystery Evening at Purple Mamba Club in Nottingham. Solve an interactive whodunnit, play your character and enjoy a fun members-only night.

Play Idols at Club Play in Blackpool. Dress as your favourite music icon, enjoy themed games, prizes, and a lively swinger community party hosted by Feral K.

Unlocking Pleasure & Intimacy Workshop at Purple Mamba Club in Nottingham. An educational session on confidence, intimacy, communication and personal wellbeing.

Erotic Massage: The Basics Workshop at Purple Mamba Club in Nottingham. A beginner-friendly session covering sensual massage techniques, touch and connection.

Beginners Intro to Kink Workshop at Purple Mamba Club in Nottingham. A beginner-friendly evening exploring consent, communication and safe kink basics.

Discovering Your Inner Domme Workshop at Purple Mamba Club in Nottingham. A beginner-friendly workshop focused on confidence, communication and female-led dynamics.