A relaxed, welcoming night for the bi & bi-curious community to flirt, connect, and explore — at your own pace.
West Bromwich
Where Pleasure Meets Passion in the Heart of the Midlands
Looking for a thrilling, hedonistic escape that caters to your deepest desires? Whether you’re an experienced explorer or simply curious about embracing your wild side, Xtasia is the ultimate destination for adults who crave adventure, excitement, and unforgettable experiences.
Voted the UK’s #1 Swingers Club
Established in the 1980s, Xtasia has earned its prestigious title as the longest-running and most renowned swingers club in the UK. A true pioneer in the world of adult entertainment, we are proud to be recognized by our peers as the top swingers and fetish venue in the country.
Your Playground of Sensuality and Liberation
Xtasia offers a safe, open-minded environment where you can explore your fantasies at your own pace. From swinging and fetish events to voyeuristic thrills, exhibitionist excitement, and everything in between—if you're over 18 and open to a night of uninhibited fun, we’ve got something for you. But remember, you don’t need to participate in anything; simply enjoy the atmosphere and mingle with like-minded adults in a liberating space that celebrates all forms of adult play.
Two Thrilling Venues, One Unforgettable Experience
The Xtasia complex now includes both the Xtasia Nightclub and Spa, alongside Flirts Bar, a luxurious Hotel, and even a Cinema. Whether you're attending a weekly swingers event, indulging in fetish play, or simply unwinding in the spa, there’s always something happening to keep you entertained.
Relax & Recharge at Our Hotel & Spa
Our newly launched Hotel Rooms and Spa Facilities offer a decadent escape for guests looking for a luxurious staycation. Indulge in a soothing spa day, or book a night in one of our stylish rooms to make your experience even more special. It’s the perfect place to rest, recharge, and keep the fun going.
Join the Xtasia Experience
The doors of Xtasia are always open to new members who seek a safe, exciting, and sensual environment. Whether you're here for an event or to enjoy a night out, we guarantee an unforgettable time. Ready to discover a world of pleasure? Join Us Now and become part of a vibrant, inclusive community that celebrates the freedom to explore, connect, and express yourself.
For event schedules, pricing, and more information, browse our site or give us a call at 07850 236 053.
Your adventure begins at Xtasia—Where every night is an opportunity to discover more.
Events announced at Xtasia.
A relaxed, welcoming night for the bi & bi-curious community to flirt, connect, and explore — at your own pace.
This is the night for everyone who grew up on Blink-182, Bullet For My Valentine, The Used, Taking Back Sunday, and everything loud, emotional, and unapologetically alternative. If you danced your heart out at Subculture at the Academy or still lose yourself at Uproar, you already know — this night is calling you back.
Returning every other month on the second Saturday, PediPlay Time invites foot-fetish enthusiasts and curious newcomers alike to enjoy a dedicated evening of exploration, connection, and indulgence — hosted within the relaxed and welcoming setting of Flirts at Xtasia.
Held every second Tuesday of the month, Friends, Fun & More (FFM) is a relaxed and welcoming play social created especially for members of the Midlands Swinging Community who value genuine connection as much as shared experiences.
Running every third Friday of alternate months (February, April, June, August, October, December), Hot Wives at Xtasia is one of the most anticipated themed nights on the calendar — created for those who enjoy the confidence, chemistry, and excitement found within hot-wife and stag & vixen dynamics, as well as those who simply appreciate a room full of attractive, open-minded people.
As the evenings grow colder, it’s time to slow things down, get cosy, and enjoy a night designed just for women. Girls Night In at Flirts is all about relaxation, connection, and indulgent “me time” — shared with like-minded ladies in a warm, welcoming space.
Running every other month on the third Saturday, CLIMAX is the event for those who truly love to swing and want the energy turned up from the very start. Designed to encourage maximum interaction and irresistible chemistry, this is a night where confidence, connection, and play take centre stage.
Looking for something a little different? Flirts Board Game Evening is all about relaxed fun, friendly competition, and easy conversation — the perfect mid-month social for members who enjoy connecting in a more laid-back way.