Upcoming events tagged Members Only

Presented by Tom_and_Jerry69, Cougars & Cubs at Xtasia is a high-energy lifestyle party celebrating confident, experienced women and the younger men who adore them. If you love flirtation, chemistry, and unapologetic attraction, this is a night designed exactly for you.

As the colder evenings draw in, Flirts at Xtasia invites you to unwind, connect, and indulge in a beautifully relaxed Girls Night In — a women-only evening designed for comfort, confidence, and connection.

Queer play, all genders, no limits. LGBT Night is on from 8pm to midnight: gay and bi play for men, women, trans, non-binary and TV/CD guests. Come solo, as a couple, or with your crew. BYOB, singles £15, couples £25. 18+, Challenge 25.

Dark Secrets at V2V: Caribbean heat, hidden desires, and a seductive night for discreet couples, elegant single ladies, and selected gentlemen.

Swing meets kink on Friday 20th November, when Dangerous Curves turns the Liberty Elite dance floor into a dungeon. Live demos, the violet wand, wax play, and Mr Loc and Raya on hand to guide anyone who’s curious but doesn’t know where to start. SJ’s back too with discounted piercings and fine line tattoos — bring cash. Body positive, curves of all sizes, and you absolutely don’t need to be into kink to have a brilliant night. Couples £45, single ladies £20. New single gents must be vetted by the 17th.

Cottage takes over Lakota on Friday 20th November, 10pm till 4am. A club night, cruising space and play party for cis and trans men who are sexually open and up for exploring — plus non-binary folks who feel at home in gay male culture. No membership needed, but advance tickets only, from £18. Cottage takes over Lakota on Friday 20th November, 10pm till 4am. A club night, cruising space and play party for cis and trans men who are sexually open and up for exploring — plus non-binary folks who feel at home in gay male culture. No membership needed, but advance tickets only, from £18. Last entry 1am. 18+.. 18+.

Xtasia proudly presents Youthful Exuberance — a high-energy lifestyle event designed to celebrate confidence, connection, and youthful chemistry. This is a preference night aimed at the under-40s, creating a vibrant, lively atmosphere with a noticeably younger crowd, while remaining welcoming, inclusive, and relaxed.

Bi2 Takeover Party at V2V Club in Nuneaton. Hosted by Tina Vonteese and the Bi2 Crew, enjoy an inclusive night of music, community, and connection.

Liberty Lounge at Liberty Elite in Lutterworth. A refined newcomers night with a relaxed atmosphere, elegant setting and supportive hosts.

Play Dirty: a play night with a competitive twist. Party games mixed into the freedom of a club night, with daring and SFW versions of everything and every game strictly opt-in. Playrooms open all night, and at midnight things turn sultry. Saturday 21st November at The Ecclesia, Glasgow, 9pm till 2am. From £10. Easily the best night to come to if you’ve never been before.

Winter’s settling in, and so are we. Skirt Social Brunch lands at Scarlett Green in Soho on Sunday 22nd November, 2pm: bottomless bubbles, two of their award-winning courses, and easy conversation with beautiful company. Dress code is Festive Winter Flirtation — velvet, silk, jewel tones and glossy lips. Tickets £12 to reserve your seat, and they go quickly.

Dark by half four, cold outside, hot tub on. Sexy Sunday returns to The Private Club in Aston on the 22nd with Holly, Lola and Louisa — 8 till 11pm, one session, no queue and no rush. Single ladies free, couples £25, single men from £70. Guest list only, cash only, photo ID at the door.