Events

Join us for Flirts – Friends, Fun and More (FFM), the monthly play social designed for the Midlands swinging community at Xtasia, one of the UK’s most respected swingers and fetish clubs. This relaxed adult social night is perfect for couples and singles who want to meet like-minded people, socialise, and explore the lifestyle in a safe and welcoming environment.

POUNDED at The Edge in Southampton is the ultimate £1 party, with £1 entry tickets, shots and spirit mixers, plus DJ CON every Tuesday night.

T-Party at Steamer Quay in Torquay. A welcoming social for cross-dressers, admirers, and the LGBTQ+ community with excellent wellness facilities.

POWER has been running since 2011, and it’s still the daytime T/Girls and admirers night in the Southwest. Wednesdays at Swindon Swingers, midday till 8pm, last entry 6.30pm. Changing facilities, lockers and towels, a proper social side and plenty more besides. £20 on the door, or £15 for T/Girls who’ve posted on TVCHIX and arrive by 2pm. No membership, no booking.

Mid Week Foam Party at SweatBox in London brings bubbly Wednesday fun, with foam sessions at both 8 PM and 10 PM every week.

BAR150 at The Edge in Southampton brings £1.50 drinks, karaoke, DJ sets, a £100 bar tab prize and a late-night garden BBQ every Wednesday.

XPOSED with Bailey J Mills at The Brewers in Manchester brings fierce drag, lip-sync battles, special guests and drinks offers for a lively night out.

Dare 2 Bare at Heroes Health Club in Stourbridge is a weekly naked event for gay and bisexual men every Thursday and Sunday, with towels prohibited.

Exposed at Steamer Quay in Torquay. A welcoming social day for gay and bi men featuring wellness facilities, a complimentary buffet and a body-positive atmosphere.

Thursdays at She World: quieter than Saturday, and a lot of regulars prefer it that way. Open from the afternoon, with a brilliant changing room, a garden, cinema room, darkroom and private cabins. Reasonable bar prices, a friendly crowd, and the warmest welcome in the south east for anyone new. Come and go as you please.

Thirsty Thursday at Guilt Free Girls Club in London. A bold, female-focused swingers night built for confidence, energy, and connection.

Hard Up Thursdays at SweatBox Soho in London offers free admission for guests aged 25 and under, with valid photo ID required for entry.