The weekend begins here — at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle venue, where Friday nights are all about connection, curiosity, and carefree fun.

Freedom Friday is all about leaving the working week behind and stepping into an evening of relaxation, connection, and indulgence at The Vanilla Alternative. This is a relaxed, social, and inclusive night open to couples, ladies, and pre-booked gentlemen, making it the perfect way to ease into the weekend.

Taking place every second Friday of the month, Xtasia proudly partners with the Blackmans Fan Club to bring you a lively, mixed social night with a welcoming and energetic atmosphere.

Swing Both Ways is a welcoming and respectful night created for bi and bi-curious guests, offering a safe space to relax, socialise, and explore attraction and connection without judgement.

It’s time to celebrate one full year of MILF Mayhem in Flirts, and we’re marking the occasion in true Xtasia style—with great company, irresistible energy, and a daytime atmosphere that always delivers.

Join us for Pleasures’ Doctors and Nurses Theme Night, where fantasy meets flirtation in an atmosphere that’s equal parts playful and provocative.

Introducing Kinky Fuckers, a brand-new event at Xtasia designed for couples and ladies who want to explore kink in a safe, welcoming, and well-equipped environment.

Join us in Flirts for a light-hearted evening of fun, competitive, and occasionally mischievous board games—the perfect way to break the ice and enjoy great company.

This anniversary edition of MILF Mayhem in Flirts promises the same legendary daytime energy, seductive atmosphere, and irresistible crowd that has made this event such a favourite… with a little extra indulgence thrown in.