Taking your first steps into the lifestyle? Or your first visit to Xtasia? Newcummers Unleashed is thoughtfully designed for newcomers, offering a welcoming, non-pressurised introduction to the swinging scene in a safe, relaxed, and supportive environment.

Unwind and start your weekend in style at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle club known for its welcoming, elegant, and playful atmosphere.

BMFC Bonus Night is a special extra edition of the popular BMFC events — added exclusively on those rare 5th Fridays that appear roughly every three months. If you’ve attended before, you already know the energy. If you haven’t, this is the perfect opportunity to experience it.

🎬 Lights, camera… seduction! Step into the spotlight for our glamorous Movie Stars Theme Night at Pleasures. Come dressed as your favourite movie icon — whether you’re channeling classic Hollywood elegance, a daring action hero, or a sultry screen siren, this is your chance to shine under the club lights.

Get ready for one of Xtasia’s most talked-about nights of the year — the Foam Party is back, and it’s bigger, bolder, and bubblier than ever.

Join CherriPie and her carefully selected team for an afternoon of exclusive indulgence and playful mischief, as Flirts becomes the setting for one of Xtasia’s most talked-about private hire events.

Built by experts through lived experience, this evening recognises that many within our community and lifestyle have their own mental health journeys. At its heart, our community is founded on connection, discretion, understanding, and shared respect — and this event uses those values to create a space where support comes naturally.

Start your weekend in style at Pleasures — Kent’s elegant, female-led lifestyle venue known for its friendly, relaxed and non-pushy atmosphere. Our Friday Night Party invites you to unwind, socialise and connect with open-minded guests in a welcoming space designed for pleasure and discovery.

Why do anything solo when you can do it as a double act? Double Act at Club F is all about chemistry, connection, and pairing up for a night where everything feels better in twos.