Friends, Fun & More (FFM) is Xtasia’s monthly Play Social, bringing together members of the Midlands swinging community in a relaxed, friendly setting designed to help genuine connections grow naturally.

Every month, Xtasia teams up with Blackmans Fan Club to bring you a vibrant, high-energy mixed night that blends classic nightclub vibes with lifestyle curiosity and connection.

Flirts Bi Night is a relaxed, friendly space for bi and bi-curious members to flirt, connect, socialise, and explore in a comfortable, pressure-free environment.

MILF Mayhem returns to Flirts at Xtasia—and this time, we’re celebrating its 1st Anniversary in true Xtasia style.

Xtasia invites you to the launch of Kinky Fuckers—a brand-new event created for couples and ladies who love to explore the kinkier side of desire in a safe, inclusive, and well-equipped space.

Take a break from the usual pace and join us in Flirts for a relaxed evening of fun, laughter, and friendly competition at our Board Game Evening.

As the evenings start to cool, Flirts invites you to unwind, relax, and indulge in a night created by women, for women.

Friday 18 September 2026 – Couples & Singles welcomeSaturday 19 September 2026 – Couples & Single Ladies only Class is back in session at the St Trinians Back to School Party Weekend at Chameleons Darlaston, bringing a playful, cheeky twist...

Tom_and_Jerry69 invite you to a night dedicated to irresistible chemistry, confidence, and age-positive attraction at Cougars & Cubs.