West Midlands

Every second Friday of the month, Xtasia proudly joins forces with the legendary Blackmans Fan Club to deliver a high-energy night that blends the best of a mixed singles & couples nightclub with an added edge of excitement, curiosity, and connection.

Join us for Flirts – Friends, Fun and More (FFM), the monthly play social designed for the Midlands swinging community at Xtasia, one of the UK’s most respected swingers and fetish clubs. This relaxed adult social night is perfect for couples and singles who want to meet like-minded people, socialise, and explore the lifestyle in a safe and welcoming environment.

Step into one of Xtasia’s most popular and sociable nights with Lock and Key — a fun, flirtatious ice-breaker event designed to get everyone mingling effortlessly from the moment they arrive.

Ease into the night with Sing and Swing, a relaxed and social karaoke experience hosted in Xtasia’s Chill Lounge — the perfect warm-up before diving into everything the club has to offer.

This event marks a major milestone for the Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for an immersive, preference-based evening in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming club environment.

The Great Head Space is a monthly social created to support mental wellbeing within our lifestyle community — offering a safe, understanding environment built on discretion, empathy, and shared experience.

Step into an afternoon of bold energy and irresistible chemistry as CherriPie and her hand-picked team return to Flirts at Xtasia for another exclusive private hire event — where confidence, connection, and playful mischief take centre stage.

Halloween at Xtasia is always something special — and this year, we’re going all out. Expect a night packed with atmosphere, surprises, and just the right amount of mischief as we welcome you to our legendary Halloween Party.

When the calendar gifts us a fifth Friday, BMFC Bonus Night steps in — an extra-special addition to the Blackmans Fan Club calendar, appearing roughly every three months and always delivering a buzz that regulars look forward to.

Prepare for an afternoon of unapologetic energy and irresistible chemistry as CherriPie and her hand-picked team take over Flirts at Xtasia for a private hire event where mischief, confidence, and connection take centre stage.