West Midlands

Prepare yourself for an electrifying night where curiosity, confidence, and chemistry collide. Wild Temptations invites you to step beyond the ordinary and into a world where desire runs free and boundaries are explored at your own pace.

Take a break from the usual pace and join us for a fun, social, and light-hearted Board Game Evening in Flirts. This is the perfect night for relaxed conversation, friendly competition, and connecting with others in an easygoing atmosphere.

We give you… Youthful Exuberance — an energetic, flirtatious night designed to put the youth in Youthful. This is a preference event aimed at the under-40s, creating a vibrant atmosphere with a younger crowd while still welcoming all couples and single ladies as usual.

GIRLS NIGHT IN at Flirts – a pampering, playful evening designed exclusively for women. Whether you’re gay, straight, bi, or just in need of a relaxing girls’ night, this is your space to unwind, socialize, and enjoy yourself without distractions.

Tom_and_Jerry69 presents: Cougars & Cubs at Xtasia — a high-energy, flirt-filled night dedicated to the irresistible chemistry between confident, sexy cougars and handsome, eager cubs.

Friends, Fun and More (FFM) is Flirts’ relaxed monthly play social, welcoming members of the Midlands Swinging Community for an evening focused on connection, conversation, and light-hearted fun — with the option to take things further if chemistry leads the way.

Kinky Fuckers is a brand-new themed event at Xtasia, created for those who love to explore the kinkier side of the lifestyle in a confident, open-minded, and welcoming environment.

MILF Mayhem returns to Flirts at Xtasia for a very special celebration — the 1st Anniversary of one of Xtasia’s most popular daytime socials.

Flirts – Bi Night is a relaxed, inclusive evening created for bi and bi-curious singles and couples who want a comfortable space to flirt, connect, socialise, and explore at their own pace.

Every second Friday of the month, Xtasia proudly joins forces with the Blackmans Fan Club to deliver a high-energy, inclusive night that blends the club’s regular mixed singles and couples atmosphere with an additional community of like-minded men and couples who actively seek them.