All Events

Step into a relaxed yet flirtatious evening designed to bring the Midlands Swinging Community together in a genuinely social, welcoming, and playful environment. FFM – Friends, Fun & More is Xtasia’s much-loved monthly Play Social, created for members who value connection just as much as chemistry.

It’s time to celebrate one year of MILF Mayhem at Xtasia — and you’re invited to join the party! What started as a daytime favourite has become a legendary Flirts event, known for its playful energy, confident crowd, and irresistible atmosphere. Now, we’re marking its 1st Anniversary in true Xtasia style.

Xtasia proudly teams up once again with the Blackmans Fan Club for a high-energy, highly anticipated monthly night that celebrates confidence, desire, and open-minded connections. Held every second Friday of the month, this event blends Xtasia’s classic mixed nightclub atmosphere with the unmistakable presence of a dedicated group of admired men — and the couples and singles who seek them.

Flirts – Bi Night is a relaxed, welcoming evening created specifically for bi and bi-curious members who want space to flirt, connect, and explore in a comfortable, judgement-free environment. Whether you’re confidently bi, gently curious, or simply enjoy fluid connections, this night is all about authentic attraction and mutual respect.

If baggy jeans, studded belts, Stars and Straps buckles, and eyeliner-heavy nights still live rent-free in your head — this one’s for you. It Was Not a Phase is a throwback celebration of the emo, metal, and pop-punk era, reimagined with a sexy, grown-up Xtasia twist.

Step into a night dedicated to the art of admiration with PediPlay Time, Xtasia’s bi-monthly foot fetish social, hosted by PediPlaytime Parties. Whether you’re well established on the foot fetish scene or simply curious and ready to dip your toes in, this event offers a safe, friendly, and welcoming environment to explore your interests at your own pace.

Take a break from the usual pace and join us for a fun, relaxed Board Game Evening at Flirts, where laughter, friendly competition, and great company take centre stage. This is a social-first night designed for members who enjoy connecting in a laid-back setting — with just the right hint of playful energy.

Xtasia proudly presents its much-anticipated Hot Wives event — a dedicated night celebrating the excitement, confidence, and connection found within hot-wife, stag & vixen dynamics, and the wider lifestyle community that appreciates them.

Girls Night In at Flirts is all about switching off, indulging yourself, and enjoying quality time with other women in a relaxed, welcoming, and judgement-free environment. Whether you’re looking for pampering, playful flirtation, deep chats, or simply a cosy night away from the outside world — this event is designed entirely for women.

Welcome to Climax — the night designed unapologetically for the players. Held every other month on the third Saturday, this is the event for those who come to Xtasia knowing exactly what they want: maximum chemistry, high energy, and serious swinging from the very start.