All Events

Get ready for a night where curiosity takes control and the ordinary is left at the door. Wild Temptations is designed to ignite your senses, stir your imagination, and invite you to explore a world where desire and adventure collide.

Taking your first steps into the lifestyle? Curious about clubbing but not sure where to begin? Newcummers Unleashed is designed especially for you.

Prepare for an afternoon of unapologetic energy and irresistible chemistry as CherriPie and her hand-picked team take over Flirts at Xtasia for a private hire event where mischief, confidence, and connection take centre stage.

When the calendar gifts us a fifth Friday, BMFC Bonus Night steps in — an extra-special addition to the Blackmans Fan Club calendar, appearing roughly every three months and always delivering a buzz that regulars look forward to.

Halloween at Xtasia is always something special — and this year, we’re going all out. Expect a night packed with atmosphere, surprises, and just the right amount of mischief as we welcome you to our legendary Halloween Party.

Step into an afternoon of bold energy and irresistible chemistry as CherriPie and her hand-picked team return to Flirts at Xtasia for another exclusive private hire event — where confidence, connection, and playful mischief take centre stage.

The Great Head Space is a monthly social created to support mental wellbeing within our lifestyle community — offering a safe, understanding environment built on discretion, empathy, and shared experience.

This event marks a major milestone for the Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for an immersive, preference-based evening in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming club environment.

Ease into the night with Sing and Swing, a relaxed and social karaoke experience hosted in Xtasia’s Chill Lounge — the perfect warm-up before diving into everything the club has to offer.

Step into one of Xtasia’s most popular and sociable nights with Lock and Key — a fun, flirtatious ice-breaker event designed to get everyone mingling effortlessly from the moment they arrive.