All Events

September 18, 2026
As the evenings start to cool, Flirts invites you to unwind, relax, and indulge in a night created by women, for women.
September 19, 2026
This is a preference event aimed at the under-40s, creating a vibrant, energetic atmosphere filled with fun, flirtation, and confidence. As always, all couples and single female members are welcome, but you can expect a noticeably younger crowd and a buzzing social vibe throughout the night.
Couples: £40 Single Females: £20
September 23, 2026
CherriPie returns to Flirts with her team for an afternoon event dedicated to serious mischief and uninhibited energy.
September 25, 2026
Get ready for a night where desire meets adventure and temptation is impossible to ignore.
Couples: £30 Single Males: £50 Single Females: £10
September 26, 2026
If you’ve ever been curious about the lifestyle but felt unsure where to begin, Newcummers Unleashed is designed especially for you.
Couples: £40 Single Females: £20
October 2, 2026
This event marks a major milestone for the Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for an immersive, preference-based evening in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming club environment.
Couples: £30 Single Males: £50 Single Females: £10
October 2, 2026
Warm up your vocal cords and start the night on a high note with Sing & Swing, Xtasia’s relaxed and social karaoke evening.
October 3, 2026
Break the ice the fun way at Lock & Key, one of Xtasia’s most social and interactive nights.
Couples: £40 Single Females: £20
October 4, 2026
Step into an unforgettable afternoon of daring play and liberated fun with CherriPie and crew — as they take over the iconic Flirts space at Xtasia for a private hire session designed for those who love to explore, connect, and indulge. This isn’t just any gathering — it’s serious mischief wrapped in electric energy, laughter, chemistry, and unmissable moments.
October 8, 2026
The Great Head Space returns to Flirts at Xtasia with a monthly social designed to support mental wellbeing within our lifestyle community — a safe, understanding environment where connection, discretion, and shared experience truly matter.