MILF Mayhem returns to Flirts at Xtasia for a very special celebration — the 1st Anniversary of one of Xtasia’s most popular daytime socials.

Kinky Fuckers is a brand-new themed event at Xtasia, created for those who love to explore the kinkier side of the lifestyle in a confident, open-minded, and welcoming environment.

Friends, Fun and More (FFM) is Flirts’ relaxed monthly play social, welcoming members of the Midlands Swinging Community for an evening focused on connection, conversation, and light-hearted fun — with the option to take things further if chemistry leads the way.

Tom_and_Jerry69 presents: Cougars & Cubs at Xtasia — a high-energy, flirt-filled night dedicated to the irresistible chemistry between confident, sexy cougars and handsome, eager cubs.

GIRLS NIGHT IN at Flirts – a pampering, playful evening designed exclusively for women. Whether you’re gay, straight, bi, or just in need of a relaxing girls’ night, this is your space to unwind, socialize, and enjoy yourself without distractions.

We give you… Youthful Exuberance — an energetic, flirtatious night designed to put the youth in Youthful. This is a preference event aimed at the under-40s, creating a vibrant atmosphere with a younger crowd while still welcoming all couples and single ladies as usual.

Take a break from the usual pace and join us for a fun, social, and light-hearted Board Game Evening in Flirts. This is the perfect night for relaxed conversation, friendly competition, and connecting with others in an easygoing atmosphere.

Prepare yourself for an electrifying night where curiosity, confidence, and chemistry collide. Wild Temptations invites you to step beyond the ordinary and into a world where desire runs free and boundaries are explored at your own pace.

Taking your first steps into the swinging lifestyle—or your first visit to Xtasia—can feel exciting, curious, and a little nerve-wracking all at once. Newcummers Unleashed is designed specifically to put those nerves at ease and help you explore at a pace that feels right for you.