Held every second Tuesday of the month, Friends, Fun & More (FFM) is a relaxed and welcoming play social created especially for members of the Midlands Swinging Community who value genuine connection as much as shared experiences.

Running every third Friday of alternate months (February, April, June, August, October, December), Hot Wives at Xtasia is one of the most anticipated themed nights on the calendar — created for those who enjoy the confidence, chemistry, and excitement found within hot-wife and stag & vixen dynamics, as well as those who simply appreciate a room full of attractive, open-minded people.

As the evenings grow colder, it’s time to slow things down, get cosy, and enjoy a night designed just for women. Girls Night In at Flirts is all about relaxation, connection, and indulgent “me time” — shared with like-minded ladies in a warm, welcoming space.

Running every other month on the third Saturday, CLIMAX is the event for those who truly love to swing and want the energy turned up from the very start. Designed to encourage maximum interaction and irresistible chemistry, this is a night where confidence, connection, and play take centre stage.

Looking for something a little different? Flirts Board Game Evening is all about relaxed fun, friendly competition, and easy conversation — the perfect mid-month social for members who enjoy connecting in a more laid-back way.

Get ready for a night where curiosity takes control and the ordinary is left at the door. Wild Temptations is designed to ignite your senses, stir your imagination, and invite you to explore a world where desire and adventure collide.

Taking your first steps into the lifestyle? Curious about clubbing but not sure where to begin? Newcummers Unleashed is designed especially for you.

Prepare for an afternoon of unapologetic energy and irresistible chemistry as CherriPie and her hand-picked team take over Flirts at Xtasia for a private hire event where mischief, confidence, and connection take centre stage.

When the calendar gifts us a fifth Friday, BMFC Bonus Night steps in — an extra-special addition to the Blackmans Fan Club calendar, appearing roughly every three months and always delivering a buzz that regulars look forward to.