The Great Head Space is a monthly social created to offer understanding, connection, and quiet support within our lifestyle community. Many of us have lived experience of mental health challenges, and this space exists to honour that—without pressure, judgement, or expectation.

This event marks a major step forward for The Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for a bold, immersive, and unforgettable themed night dedicated to cuckold dynamics, power exchange, and consensual fantasy play.

Warm up your voice, grab the mic, and let your inner performer out—Sing and Swing brings a playful, social twist to your Xtasia night.

One of the most anticipated nights on the Xtasia calendar returns with FFFF – Fab Friends Free Fun—a high-energy, feel-good event created especially for our amazing community.

CherriPie and her carefully selected team take over Flirts for an afternoon of unapologetic indulgence and playful mischief.

Friends, Fun & More (FFM) is Xtasia’s monthly Play Social, bringing together members of the Midlands swinging community in a relaxed, friendly setting designed to help genuine connections grow naturally.

Every month, Xtasia teams up with Blackmans Fan Club to bring you a vibrant, high-energy mixed night that blends classic nightclub vibes with lifestyle curiosity and connection.

Flirts Bi Night is a relaxed, friendly space for bi and bi-curious members to flirt, connect, socialise, and explore in a comfortable, pressure-free environment.

MILF Mayhem returns to Flirts at Xtasia—and this time, we’re celebrating its 1st Anniversary in true Xtasia style.