Sandwell

Xtasia proudly teams up once again with the Blackmans Fan Club for a high-energy, highly anticipated monthly night that celebrates confidence, desire, and open-minded connections. Held every second Friday of the month, this event blends Xtasia’s classic mixed nightclub atmosphere with the unmistakable presence of a dedicated group of admired men — and the couples and singles who seek them.

Step into a relaxed yet flirtatious evening designed to bring the Midlands Swinging Community together in a genuinely social, welcoming, and playful environment. FFM – Friends, Fun & More is Xtasia’s much-loved monthly Play Social, created for members who value connection just as much as chemistry.

Prepare for an unforgettable afternoon of bold fun and liberated play! Join CherriPie and her crew as they take over Flirts for an exclusive Gangbang session — where the energy is high, the company is thrilling, and the atmosphere is electric. This is not just another meet-up — it’s a carefully curated private hire event for open-minded adults ready to dive into serious mischief and connection.

Get ready for one of Xtasia’s most anticipated and playful events of the year — the Foam Party.

Sing and Swing is a relaxed, feel-good social night hosted in the Xtasia Chill Lounge, combining laid-back karaoke with the welcoming atmosphere Xtasia is known for.

This event marks a major milestone for the Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for a bold, immersive, and unapologetically fetish-focused night at Xtasia.

The Great Head Space is a monthly Flirts social designed to offer exactly that—a calm, welcoming environment where mental wellbeing comes first. This is not a workshop, lecture, or therapy session. It’s simply a safe, supportive space where you are free to be exactly as you need to be.

After overwhelming demand, PHUKT is BACK—and it’s bigger, louder, and more electrifying than ever before.

Step into an afternoon of pure indulgence and unapologetic desire as CherriPie and her hand-picked team return to Flirts for another unforgettable private takeover.

Taking your first steps into the swinging lifestyle—or your first visit to Xtasia—can feel exciting, curious, and a little nerve-wracking all at once. Newcummers Unleashed is designed specifically to put those nerves at ease and help you explore at a pace that feels right for you.