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Thinking about visiting a swingers club for the first time? Curious about the lifestyle but unsure where to begin? Newcummers Unleashed at Xtasia is created especially for couples and single ladies who are new to swinging, new to Xtasia, or simply looking for a gentle, non-pressured introduction to the scene.

Step into a night where curiosity, chemistry, and confidence collide. Wild Temptations at Xtasia invites you to embrace your untamed side and surrender to an evening designed to awaken the senses and blur the line between desire and adventure.

CherriPie returns to Flirts at Xtasia for an exclusive private hire afternoon event, bringing together her hand-picked team and invited guests for a session of bold energy, playful confidence, and unapologetic mischief.

Xtasia proudly presents Youthful Exuberance — a high-energy lifestyle event designed to celebrate confidence, connection, and youthful chemistry. This is a preference night aimed at the under-40s, creating a vibrant, lively atmosphere with a noticeably younger crowd, while remaining welcoming, inclusive, and relaxed.

As the colder evenings draw in, Flirts at Xtasia invites you to unwind, connect, and indulge in a beautifully relaxed Girls Night In — a women-only evening designed for comfort, confidence, and connection.

Presented by Tom_and_Jerry69, Cougars & Cubs at Xtasia is a high-energy lifestyle party celebrating confident, experienced women and the younger men who adore them. If you love flirtation, chemistry, and unapologetic attraction, this is a night designed exactly for you.

Looking for a laid-back lifestyle social in the Midlands? Flirts Board Game Evening at Xtasia is the perfect chance to unwind, laugh, and connect with like-minded people in a fun, pressure-free setting.

Xtasia introduces an exciting brand-new kink-focused event designed for curious, adventurous couples and confident single ladies looking to explore alternative desires in a safe, inclusive, and professionally run environment.

MILF Mayhem returns to Xtasia as we celebrate the 1st Anniversary of this hugely popular daytime event, hosted in the relaxed and social surroundings of Flirts. If you’ve heard the buzz and wondered what all the fuss is about, this is your chance to experience it for yourself.

Flirts – Bi Night at Xtasia is a relaxed, friendly, and inclusive evening designed for bi, bi-curious, and open-minded members looking to flirt, connect, and explore in a safe, respectful environment. Whether you’re experienced in the lifestyle or just beginning to explore your bisexual side, this event offers a welcoming space with no pressure and plenty of opportunity to socialise.