All Events

Prepare for an unforgettable night as The Vanilla Alternative is transformed into a sanctuary of rhythm, groove, and soul. Soundcasters Studio: Funked Up is an exclusive members’ party dedicated to deep, soulful house music, seductive energy, and late-night connection.

Step into a night of elegance, intrigue, and indulgence at Incognito Casino, Xtasia’s most glamorous masquerade experience.

Saturday nights don’t get more stylish, relaxed, or empowering than Couples & Ladies ONLY at Ignite.

Step into an afternoon of freedom, connection, and indulgence as MONDAY FUNDAY at Decadance Rochdale invites you to escape the ordinary and immerse yourself in an electrifying lifestyle atmosphere designed for pleasure, relaxation, and unforgettable encounters.

Held every second Tuesday of the month, Friends, Fun & More (FFM) is a relaxed, welcoming play social designed especially for members of the Midlands Swinging Community.

Turn up the heat and let your inhibitions melt away at HUMP NIGHT HIJINX, Decadance Rochdale’s irresistible midweek escape — where karaoke, flirtation, playful banter, and kink-friendly energy collide.

Prepare to unleash your sexy side at Silks & Skins Spa Day — a bold, body-positive daytime event where confidence, connection, and indulgence flow effortlessly.

It’s time to celebrate one full year of MILF Mayhem in Flirts, and we’re marking the occasion in true Xtasia style—with great company, irresistible energy, and a daytime atmosphere that always delivers.

Your perfect daytime escape into relaxation, connection, and playful possibility — FAB FRiDAY DAYTiME invites you to unwind, explore, and indulge in a laid-back yet seductive club atmosphere designed for both newcomers and experienced lifestyle members.

Curious about the lifestyle? Nervous about taking your very first step? The ICEBREAKER is designed especially for newbies, offering a relaxed, friendly and welcoming environment where curiosity, connection, and confidence come together naturally.