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Flirts – Bi Night at Xtasia is a relaxed, friendly, and inclusive evening designed for bi, bi-curious, and open-minded members looking to flirt, connect, and explore in a safe, respectful environment. Whether you’re experienced in the lifestyle or just beginning to explore your bisexual side, this event offers a welcoming space with no pressure and plenty of opportunity to socialise.

Start your weekend the right way with our Friday Night Party at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle destination. This is your chance to unwind after a long week and step into a relaxed, friendly, and non-pushy atmosphere where genuine connections come naturally.

Saturday nights at Pleasures are all about connection, confidence, and sensual discovery. Join us for an unforgettable evening in Kent’s most elegant lifestyle venue — where excitement meets relaxation in a welcoming, non-pushy environment.

Xtasia introduces an exciting brand-new kink-focused event designed for curious, adventurous couples and confident single ladies looking to explore alternative desires in a safe, inclusive, and professionally run environment.

Looking for a laid-back lifestyle social in the Midlands? Flirts Board Game Evening at Xtasia is the perfect chance to unwind, laugh, and connect with like-minded people in a fun, pressure-free setting.

Presented by Tom_and_Jerry69, Cougars & Cubs at Xtasia is a high-energy lifestyle party celebrating confident, experienced women and the younger men who adore them. If you love flirtation, chemistry, and unapologetic attraction, this is a night designed exactly for you.

As the colder evenings draw in, Flirts at Xtasia invites you to unwind, connect, and indulge in a beautifully relaxed Girls Night In — a women-only evening designed for comfort, confidence, and connection.

Ease into the weekend with a sensual and social evening at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle club. Our Friday Night Party invites you to relax, unwind, and connect in a beautifully designed venue that’s as welcoming as it is exciting.

Get ready for another unforgettable Friday Night Party at Pleasures, Kent’s most stylish and welcoming lifestyle venue. Start your weekend in a relaxed, open-minded setting where friendly faces, laughter, and sensual exploration come together under one roof.

Step into an evening of admiration and allure as Pleasures hosts its Salute the Services Theme Night — a celebration dedicated to the brave men and women of our uniformed services. Whether you come dressed as a daring soldier, dashing sailor, commanding officer, or seductive nurse, this night promises to be one of passion, playfulness, and pure fun.