Upcoming events tagged Members Only

Flirts – Friends, Fun and More Social 
Flirts – Friends, Fun and More Social  Swingers Parties
November 10, 2026

Join us for Flirts – Friends, Fun and More (FFM), the monthly play social designed for the Midlands swinging community at Xtasia, one of the UK’s most respected swingers and fetish clubs. This relaxed adult social night is perfect for couples and singles who want to meet like-minded people, socialise, and explore the lifestyle in a safe and welcoming environment.

HAPPY WEDNESDAY
HAPPY WEDNESDAY Bi & Trans Parties
November 11, 2026

Thinking about your first time out en femme? Happy Wednesday at Lovejoys is built exactly for that — T-girls only, 11am till 2pm, with private changing rooms, an optional make-up service and a team who’ve guided plenty of first-timers through it. Your entry also covers the main Lovejoys event from 1pm, so you’re settled in long before the room fills up. Minutes from Sutton station.

GREEDY GIRLS Party
GREEDY GIRLS Party Gangbang & Group Sex Parties

Charlie and Preeti are hosting this Thursday at The Private Club in Aston — two sessions, 12 till 3 and 8 till 11. Long lunch or late night, your call. Single ladies free, couples £25, single men from £60. Guest list only, cash only, photo ID at the door.

MILF Mayhem in Flirts
MILF Mayhem in Flirts Daytime Swingers Parties
November 13, 2026

MILF Mayhem returns to Xtasia as we celebrate the 1st Anniversary of this hugely popular daytime event, hosted in the relaxed and social surroundings of Flirts. If you’ve heard the buzz and wondered what all the fuss is about, this is your chance to experience it for yourself.

Friday Night Party
Friday Night Party Swingers Parties
November 13, 2026

Start your weekend the right way with our Friday Night Party at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle destination. This is your chance to unwind after a long week and step into a relaxed, friendly, and non-pushy atmosphere where genuine connections come naturally.

Blackmans Fan Club
Blackmans Fan Club Swingers Parties
November 13, 2026

Every second Friday of the month, Xtasia proudly joins forces with the legendary Blackmans Fan Club to deliver a high-energy night that blends the best of a mixed singles & couples nightclub with an added edge of excitement, curiosity, and connection.

Flirts – Bi Night
Flirts – Bi Night Bi & Trans Parties
November 13, 2026

Flirts – Bi Night at Xtasia is a relaxed, friendly, and inclusive evening designed for bi, bi-curious, and open-minded members looking to flirt, connect, and explore in a safe, respectful environment. Whether you’re experienced in the lifestyle or just beginning to explore your bisexual side, this event offers a welcoming space with no pressure and plenty of opportunity to socialise.

Kinky Fuckers
Kinky Fuckers Fetish & BDSM Events
November 14, 2026

Xtasia introduces an exciting brand-new kink-focused event designed for curious, adventurous couples and confident single ladies looking to explore alternative desires in a safe, inclusive, and professionally run environment.