Meet & Greets

Social mixers, munches, and meet & greet events for the swinger and lifestyle community. Low-pressure gatherings focused on conversation, networking, and making connections before play, perfect for newcomers building confidence.

August 30, 2026
Summer may be winding down, but the good vibes are far from over. The Free Summer Social at Club F is all about slowing the pace, enjoying the atmosphere, and connecting with like-minded people in a relaxed, no-pressure setting.
September 1, 2026
The Great Head Space is a monthly social created to offer understanding, connection, and quiet support within our lifestyle community. Many of us have lived experience of mental health challenges, and this space exists to honour that—without pressure, judgement, or expectation.
September 8, 2026
Friends, Fun & More (FFM) is Xtasia’s monthly Play Social, bringing together members of the Midlands swinging community in a relaxed, friendly setting designed to help genuine connections grow naturally.
September 15, 2026
Take a break from the usual pace and join us in Flirts for a relaxed evening of fun, laughter, and friendly competition at our Board Game Evening.
October 8, 2026
The Great Head Space returns to Flirts at Xtasia with a monthly social designed to support mental wellbeing within our lifestyle community — a safe, understanding environment where connection, discretion, and shared experience truly matter.
October 20, 2026
Looking for something a little different? Flirts Board Game Evening is all about relaxed fun, friendly competition, and easy conversation — the perfect mid-month social for members who enjoy connecting in a more laid-back way.
November 3, 2026
The Great Head Space is a monthly social created to support mental wellbeing within our lifestyle community — offering a safe, understanding environment built on discretion, empathy, and shared experience.
November 10, 2026
Join us for Flirts – Friends, Fun and More (FFM), the monthly play social designed for the Midlands swinging community at Xtasia, one of the UK’s most respected swingers and fetish clubs. This relaxed adult social night is perfect for couples and singles who want to meet like-minded people, socialise, and explore the lifestyle in a safe and welcoming environment.
November 17, 2026
Looking for a laid-back lifestyle social in the Midlands? Flirts Board Game Evening at Xtasia is the perfect chance to unwind, laugh, and connect with like-minded people in a fun, pressure-free setting.