Beginners & Newcomer Nights

Turn up the heat and let your inhibitions melt away at HUMP NIGHT HIJINX, Decadance Rochdale’s irresistible midweek escape — where karaoke, flirtation, playful banter, and kink-friendly energy collide.

Curious about the lifestyle? Nervous about taking your very first step? The ICEBREAKER is designed especially for newbies, offering a relaxed, friendly and welcoming environment where curiosity, connection, and confidence come together naturally.

Freedom Friday is all about leaving the working week behind and stepping into an evening of relaxation, connection, and indulgence at The Vanilla Alternative. This is a relaxed, social, and inclusive night open to couples, ladies, and pre-booked gentlemen, making it the perfect way to ease into the weekend.

Looking to meet like-minded people in a relaxed, welcoming, and pressure-free environment? Social at Ignite is your perfect introduction to the lifestyle scene — a stylish, friendly social evening designed for genuine connection, easy conversation, and relaxed mingling.

Newcummers Unleashed is a relaxed, friendly, and non-pressurised evening created especially for newcomers to the swinging scene and those visiting Xtasia for the first time.

Newcummers Unleashed is the perfect introduction to the lifestyle — a relaxed, non-pressurised evening created especially for those new to swinging or new to Xtasia.

Newbie Weekend is designed especially for those curious about the lifestyle, offering a relaxed, friendly, and pressure-free introduction to the club scene.

Newbie Weekend is all about making your first visit relaxed, welcoming, and completely pressure-free.

Taking your first steps into the swinging lifestyle—or your first visit to Xtasia—can feel exciting, curious, and a little nerve-wracking all at once. Newcummers Unleashed is designed specifically to put those nerves at ease and help you explore at a pace that feels right for you.

Taking your first steps into the lifestyle? Curious but cautious? Newcummers Unleashed is the perfect introduction to swinging — designed specifically for newcomers to the scene and those new to Xtasia, with an emphasis on comfort, consent, and choice.