Looking to meet new people away from dating apps? Hot N Bothered: Dyke Speed Dating offers a fun, relaxed, and inclusive way to connect with like-minded people in a welcoming community setting at Dalston Superstore. Whether you’re searching for friendship, romance, or simply hoping to expand your queer social circle, this thoughtfully organised event makes meeting people feel natural and enjoyable.
Before the event, participants complete a short survey that helps organisers create thoughtful matches based on shared interests and compatibility. During the evening, you’ll enjoy 8 to 10 short dates, each lasting around five minutes, with conversation prompts to help break the ice and keep the discussions flowing. It’s an easy-going format designed to remove the pressure and encourage genuine connections.
Once the speed dating sessions have finished, the evening continues with a lively karaoke party from 8:45 PM, giving everyone the chance to socialise further in a relaxed atmosphere. Whether you’re stepping up to the microphone or simply cheering others on, it’s the perfect way to continue conversations and get to know people beyond the dates.
This event welcomes anyone who identifies with the dyke, sapphic, or lesbian experience, including lesbians, bisexual people, trans people, non-binary people, and others who love queer women. Both polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous (ENM) attendees, as well as those seeking monogamous relationships, are warmly welcomed. Organisers also aim to group participants by age where possible, helping to create comfortable and meaningful connections throughout the evening.
Hosted at Dalston Superstore, one of East London’s most celebrated LGBTQIA+ venues, the event takes place in an inclusive community space renowned for its diverse programme of social events, live performances, club nights, and cultural gatherings. Located on Kingsland High Street, the venue has become a cornerstone of London’s queer nightlife and community, providing a welcoming environment where everyone can feel at home.
Whether you’re new to queer dating events or a regular attendee, Hot N Bothered: Dyke Speed Dating offers a supportive and enjoyable opportunity to meet new people, share meaningful conversations, and enjoy an evening of connection and community.
Date: Tuesday, 14 July
Time: 6:30 PM – 11:00 PM
Venue: Dalston Superstore
Location: 117 Kingsland High Street, Dalston, London E8 2PB
Karaoke: From 8:45 PM
Age Requirement: 21+
Who Can Attend: Anyone who identifies with the dyke, sapphic or lesbian experience, including bisexual, trans and non-binary people. Poly/ENM and monogamous attendees are welcome.