Start the weekend in style at Freedom Friday at The Vanilla Alternative in Bedfordshire, one of the UK’s best-known lifestyle venues, where relaxed social energy, luxury surroundings, and open-minded guests come together for an unforgettable Friday night experience.
Running from 20:00 until 02:30, Freedom Friday welcomes couples, single ladies, and pre-booked single gentlemen for an evening designed around freedom, connection, and choice. Whether you are looking for a sociable night out, a vibrant party atmosphere, or a more relaxed introduction to the lifestyle scene, the event offers an approachable environment for both newcomers and experienced guests alike.
The Vanilla Alternative has earned a reputation for its warm hospitality, discreet environment, and extensive facilities. Guests can enjoy stylish social areas, immersive themed spaces, a fully equipped dungeon, play areas, relaxing lounges, and the venue’s popular giant hot tub. Every area is designed to create a comfortable and inclusive atmosphere where guests can enjoy the evening at their own pace.
The club’s experienced team are known for making guests feel welcome from the moment they arrive, helping create a safe, respectful, and relaxed environment throughout the night. Freedom Friday is particularly popular with those looking to unwind after the working week and enjoy the social side of the lifestyle community in a sophisticated setting.
The onsite bar remains open throughout the evening, while guests wishing to extend the experience can take advantage of the venue’s onsite hotel accommodation or discreet shuttle service to nearby local hotels.
Event Schedule
- Club Opens: 20:00
- Bar Open Until: 02:00
- Club Closes: 02:30
Entry Prices – Advance Member Tickets
- Couple: £35 Advance / £40 On The Door
- Single Female: £10 Advance / £15 On The Door
- Single Male: £40 Advance Only
Dress Code
Gentlemen
Smart fitted attire required, including collared shirts, waistcoats, smart trousers, or fitted designer jeans.
No sportswear, ripped or baggy jeans, pumps, or gym trainers permitted.
Ladies
Elegant dresses, stylish heels, or sophisticated lingerie are encouraged. Dressing down is optional unless entering play areas.
Venue
The Vanilla Alternative
The Anchor Lodge Hotel
Great North Road
Tempsford
Bedfordshire
SG19 2AS
Parking & Accommodation
- Discreet parking available for up to 200 vehicles
- Onsite hotel accommodation available
- Discreet shuttle service to nearby hotels offered for pre-booked guests
Important Information
- Members-only event
- Single gentlemen must pre-book
- Photography strictly prohibited inside the venue
- Tickets are non-refundable and non-transferable
A stylish and welcoming start to the weekend, Freedom Friday combines premium facilities, sociable atmosphere, and relaxed luxury at one of the UK’s leading lifestyle destinations.