Touted as one of the UK’s top swinger lifestyle destinations, Le Boudoir of London offers plenty of room to delve into a myriad of open relationship experiences. As a private members’ club, Le Boudoir requires guests to be 21 or over to join in the fun.
Chances are, you’ve already heard about it.
It maybe a fringe possibility for your swingers lifestyle bucket list. But what’s it truly all about?
Let’s explore.
About Le Boudoir – Understanding the Essentials
Le Boudoir is a private members’ club. You must apply to gain approval to attend any event at the club. In other words, Le Boudoir isn’t a place you decide to visit on a whim. A membership is essential, and we can’t emphasise that enough.
That said, the private membership setup helps maintain Le Boudoir as a haven for those truly dedicated to the swinger lifestyle. You can worry less about “swinger tourists” who might have a misguided notion of the lifestyle, wandering around hoping to exploit the sexual freedom. Attendees at Le Boudoir are genuinely committed to the swinger lifestyle. This exclusivity also protects everyone, from everyday folks and mums to professional athletes, celebrities, and even royalty who have been known to frequent the club.
Le Boudoir Club frequently hosts events and gatherings, much of which can be found on their Instagram.
There’s a fully stocked bar featuring wine, beer, and mixed drinks. Water is provided free of charge, so staying hydrated is easy.
The dance area spans two floors, offering plenty of space to move. There’s ample seating and a DJ booth on select nights. The second floor boasts a lovely balcony, perfect for people-watching and accessing the dance floor.
Being a private club, Le Boudoir maintains fairly clean bathrooms.
You can get lockers if you need them.
Playrooms are scattered throughout the club.
Dress Code
One notable here is that Le Boudoir does have a rather strict dress code, so it’s important to read up. There dress code page leaves 0 doubt for what to expect at the door, so it is best to read up. They will reject you if you don’t follow the dress code.
Ladies, think a sexy dress with some nice shoes or boots, and if you fancy, you can always dress down to lingerie. The club is practical and understands if you want to travel casually and change once you arrive.
Men, remember where you’re going and why. The dress code is straightforward: formal trousers or dark jeans – avoid those heavily bleached, ripped, patched, or paint-splattered varieties. Pair this with a buttoned formal shirt, a plain black or navy polo, or an all-black t-shirt or jumper. A sleek suit jacket wouldn’t hurt either – it’s a timeless, casual classic that always gets noticed by the ladies.
Cost
Initial membership fee: €58.50 / $63.50
Annual renewal fee: €29.25 / $31.75
Entry fee for couples: Approximately €105.30 / $114.30
Entry fee for single men: Approximately €128.70 / $139.70
Entry fee for single women: Complimentary for some events
The Crowd
You should expect a lot of 30s and 40s as well as some in their 50s. Its an attractive, sophisticated crowd. As usual, the women are often much more attractive than the men.
The crowd gets more energized after 11 PM when dancing goes down. There’s a lot of playfulness given all the playrooms, particularly in the dungeon areas. The music is loud, so it can be tough to hear others.
Conclusion
Le Boudoir Club of London is undoubtedly a top UK swingers club and one that should be on every tourists bucket list. While it does cost for a membership, the crowd is electric and attractive and fun. It’s a swinger scene like no other.
Charles Lace is a distinguished UK-based writer, born in 1975 in Brighton, who has become a prominent voice in the open relationship and swinger communities. His passion for exploring and documenting alternative lifestyles, particularly in the UK, has made him a well-known figure in these circles.
After studying Creative Writing at the University of East Anglia, Lace began his career as a freelance journalist for London newspapers. In his late 20s, he found his niche writing about non-monogamous relationships and the swinger lifestyle. His breakthrough came in 2005 with the publication of “Open Hearts, Open Doors: An Introduction to Ethical Non-Monogamy,” which became an unexpected bestseller in its niche.
Known for his frank yet sensitive approach, Lace’s writing style combines personal anecdotes with well-researched information and expert interviews. He regularly contributes to various swinger publications, most notably through his column in “Lifestyle Horizons,” a popular UK-based magazine for the swinger and polyamorous communities.