Every second Tuesday of the month, Flirts opens its doors to members of the Midlands Swinging Community for a friendly and relaxed play social we call FFM – Friends, Fun and More.

Held every other third Friday of the month (February, April, June, August, October, December), Hot Wives is one of Xtasia’s most anticipated and seductive themed nights.

As the evenings draw in, we invite all women to escape the everyday and enjoy a night dedicated entirely to pampering, socialising, and playful freedom. Whether you’re gay, straight, bi, curious, or simply in need of quality girl time — this night is for you.

Held every other third Saturday, this is the event designed for those who love maximum action, high energy, and steamy encounters from the very start. If swinging is your passion, this is the night you aim for.

Join us at Flirts for a relaxed and playful Board Game Evening, where laughter, competition, and great company take centre stage.

CherriPie and her team return to Flirts for an exclusive private-hire daytime event, promising an afternoon of high energy, bold fantasies, and playful mischief in a controlled and welcoming environment.

Prepare yourself for a night where desire meets adventure and the ordinary is left firmly at the door.

Newcummers Unleashed is the perfect introduction to the lifestyle — a relaxed, non-pressurised evening created especially for those new to swinging or new to Xtasia.

This night marks another bold step forward for the Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded couples, ladies, and gents for an immersive, fetish-focused experience within Xtasia’s safe, well-established environment.