One of the most anticipated nights on the Xtasia calendar returns with FFFF – Fab Friends Free Fun—a high-energy, feel-good event created especially for our amazing community.

CherriPie and her carefully selected team take over Flirts for an afternoon of unapologetic indulgence and playful mischief.

Friends, Fun & More (FFM) is Xtasia’s monthly Play Social, bringing together members of the Midlands swinging community in a relaxed, friendly setting designed to help genuine connections grow naturally.

Every month, Xtasia teams up with Blackmans Fan Club to bring you a vibrant, high-energy mixed night that blends classic nightclub vibes with lifestyle curiosity and connection.

Flirts Bi Night is a relaxed, friendly space for bi and bi-curious members to flirt, connect, socialise, and explore in a comfortable, pressure-free environment.

MILF Mayhem returns to Flirts at Xtasia—and this time, we’re celebrating its 1st Anniversary in true Xtasia style.

Unwind and kick off your weekend at Pleasures — Kent’s premier lifestyle club offering an elegant, relaxed, and inclusive setting for open-minded adults. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a returning guest, our Friday Night Party provides the perfect balance of socialising, seduction, and freedom.

It’s time to misbehave. St. Trinian’s Weekend at Club F brings a night of cheeky fantasy, playful rebellion, and irresistible mischief where rules are meant to be bent—and sometimes broken.

Get ready for another unforgettable evening at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle venue. Our Saturday Night Party is the highlight of the weekend — a chance to relax, mingle, and explore in a warm, welcoming, and non-pushy atmosphere.