The Great Head Space is a monthly social created to support mental wellbeing within our lifestyle community — offering a safe, understanding environment built on discretion, empathy, and shared experience.

This event marks a major milestone for the Cuckmunity, bringing together like-minded members for an immersive, preference-based evening in a safe, inclusive, and welcoming club environment.

Ease into the night with Sing and Swing, a relaxed and social karaoke experience hosted in Xtasia’s Chill Lounge — the perfect warm-up before diving into everything the club has to offer.

Kick off your weekend at Pleasures with our signature Friday Night Party — the perfect blend of sophistication, sensuality, and social energy. Expect a relaxed and friendly atmosphere where genuine connections come first and pressure stays at the door.

Yeehaw! Saddle up for a night where the spirit of the frontier meets irresistible after-dark temptation. Cowboys & Indians at Club F invites you to embrace adventure, confidence, and playful rivalry in a lively, flirtatious setting.

It’s time to dress up, unwind, and let your weekend truly begin at Pleasures, Kent’s most exclusive and sensual lifestyle venue. Our Saturday Party Night is the perfect setting to connect with open-minded people in an elegant, welcoming, and non-pushy environment.

Yeehaw! Saddle up for the second night of a wild weekend at Club F, where the spirit of the frontier comes alive and your inner cowboy, cowgirl, or daring Indian is free to roam. Expect playful rivalries, cheeky competition, and a night full of flirtation, laughter, and unforgettable encounters.

Step into one of Xtasia’s most popular and sociable nights with Lock and Key — a fun, flirtatious ice-breaker event designed to get everyone mingling effortlessly from the moment they arrive.

Join us for Flirts – Friends, Fun and More (FFM), the monthly play social designed for the Midlands swinging community at Xtasia, one of the UK’s most respected swingers and fetish clubs. This relaxed adult social night is perfect for couples and singles who want to meet like-minded people, socialise, and explore the lifestyle in a safe and welcoming environment.