Step into one of Xtasia’s most popular and sociable nights with Lock and Key — a fun, flirtatious ice-breaker event designed to get everyone mingling effortlessly from the moment they arrive.

Join us for Flirts – Friends, Fun and More (FFM), the monthly play social designed for the Midlands swinging community at Xtasia, one of the UK’s most respected swingers and fetish clubs. This relaxed adult social night is perfect for couples and singles who want to meet like-minded people, socialise, and explore the lifestyle in a safe and welcoming environment.

Every second Friday of the month, Xtasia proudly joins forces with the legendary Blackmans Fan Club to deliver a high-energy night that blends the best of a mixed singles & couples nightclub with an added edge of excitement, curiosity, and connection.

Flirts – Bi Night at Xtasia is a relaxed, friendly, and inclusive evening designed for bi, bi-curious, and open-minded members looking to flirt, connect, and explore in a safe, respectful environment. Whether you’re experienced in the lifestyle or just beginning to explore your bisexual side, this event offers a welcoming space with no pressure and plenty of opportunity to socialise.

MILF Mayhem returns to Xtasia as we celebrate the 1st Anniversary of this hugely popular daytime event, hosted in the relaxed and social surroundings of Flirts. If you’ve heard the buzz and wondered what all the fuss is about, this is your chance to experience it for yourself.

Start your weekend the right way with our Friday Night Party at Pleasures, Kent’s premier lifestyle destination. This is your chance to unwind after a long week and step into a relaxed, friendly, and non-pushy atmosphere where genuine connections come naturally.

Saturday nights at Pleasures are all about connection, confidence, and sensual discovery. Join us for an unforgettable evening in Kent’s most elegant lifestyle venue — where excitement meets relaxation in a welcoming, non-pushy environment.

Xtasia introduces an exciting brand-new kink-focused event designed for curious, adventurous couples and confident single ladies looking to explore alternative desires in a safe, inclusive, and professionally run environment.

Looking for a laid-back lifestyle social in the Midlands? Flirts Board Game Evening at Xtasia is the perfect chance to unwind, laugh, and connect with like-minded people in a fun, pressure-free setting.