Newbie Weekend is designed especially for those curious about the lifestyle, offering a relaxed, friendly, and pressure-free introduction to the club scene.

Every second Friday of the month, Xtasia proudly joins forces with the Blackmans Fan Club to deliver a high-energy, inclusive night that blends the club’s regular mixed singles and couples atmosphere with an additional community of like-minded men and couples who actively seek them.

Flirts – Bi Night is a relaxed, inclusive evening created for bi and bi-curious singles and couples who want a comfortable space to flirt, connect, socialise, and explore at their own pace.

MILF Mayhem returns to Flirts at Xtasia for a very special celebration — the 1st Anniversary of one of Xtasia’s most popular daytime socials.

Slip into your cheekiest school-inspired outfit and join us for our Back to School Theme Night, where playful nostalgia meets adult indulgence in a welcoming, open-minded atmosphere.

Newbie Weekend is all about making your first visit relaxed, welcoming, and completely pressure-free.

Kinky Fuckers is a brand-new themed event at Xtasia, created for those who love to explore the kinkier side of the lifestyle in a confident, open-minded, and welcoming environment.

Step into an evening of unapologetic indulgence, sensual connection, and liberated energy at Saturday Seduction, VA2’s signature couples and ladies-only party — where anticipation builds, inhibitions melt away, and unforgettable encounters unfold.

Friends, Fun and More (FFM) is Flirts’ relaxed monthly play social, welcoming members of the Midlands Swinging Community for an evening focused on connection, conversation, and light-hearted fun — with the option to take things further if chemistry leads the way.